Hey, im 14 and i found out that this girl that i really like likes me too, but we never talk and don't know why she likes me. She's like the hottest girl in our grade and I dont think that im really popular, so i dont know why she likes me. What should I do?
2007-01-02 10:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a little younger than u, but u must be really cute. Here is what I would want a boy to do. First of all u probably r kind of popular so don't sell yourself short. Don't intrudes yourself to her cuz if she likes u she knows who u are. Casually give her a compliment on something like her work in class, but not on her clothes or shoes cuz that would sound kind of gay. Just give her a compliment then wait 4 her 2 do something if she doesn't do anything, then ask her 2 eat lunch with u or something.
but before u do this, take it from a girl , make sure she really likes u. cuz whoever told u could be messing with u.
Good Luck! I mean it
2007-01-02 10:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by goin_crazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never talk, then why do you like her? Did you ever wonder that?? Well...She probably thinks of you much in the same way. So don't question it! Just be happy that you both like each other.
Don't act any differently than you have been...she must like the way you act....so I would say about the only thing you have to do is TALK to her!! You have the green light and she is probably wondering why you haven't. Next time you are in the same class together, ask her about an assignment or something. Or try flattering her, but don't go overboard. Tell her you like her earrings or something. Or tell her that blue shirt really looks great on her. Blue is really her color!! You don't have to come up with a big dialogue. Trust me. Most girls really like to talk. Just a line or two and she will probably get the hint and take the lead. Good luck and DON'T YOU FEEL HAPPY?? The girl you really like, LIKES YOU TOO!! That is THE BEST!! :) Hope this helps.
2007-01-02 18:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Consider the source. Who said she likes you? Don't trust girls your age--they play a lot of games. Just say hi to her. Take it slow. See what happens. There's no rush.
How nice to be liked by the hottest girl in the grade! Best of luck to you. Just consider "being friends" because if you "go out", then it is likely you will break up and then she and her friends won't like you any more.
2007-01-02 18:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should probably figure out if it's definetly true that she likes you. Once you know that, it really doesn't matter why. There's jus an attraction. Maybe your cute, or charming or jus the way u are is what she likes. Popular people can get out of their box occationally. If she likes you and you like her, dats all that matters, go for it!
2007-01-02 18:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok...u r 14...this really hot girl that u like...likes u too....how did u come to that my young friend?....if u really feel that she likes u...u should go to her and try to talk to her in a very cool and good to go manner...and u not being popular doesnt mean that u cant be her SOMETHING.....u said shes hot...not popular...try talking to her.....then let me know...i hope this helps!
2007-01-02 18:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tourniquet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you need to have waaaaay more self confidence. confidence is attractive...and will just draw her to you more! You should go for it if you both like eachother! she sees something in you, so quit feeling badly about yourself and talk to her! once you get over the awkwardness, it'll be the best thing you ever do!
2007-01-02 18:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and be like hey so and so so u wanna hang out some time make sure u be you and then make up a conversation from there on and make sure you treat her in a nice manner!
2007-01-02 18:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by pretty_girl_ke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very lucky then, don't ever ask yourself why she likes you,, have confidence in yourself.. she likes because of something special you have, never have doubt.. take your chance talk to her.. i'll help you if you like, just leave me a comment or something and i'll help you out..
2007-01-02 18:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to dance with you at the next school dance.
2007-01-02 18:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop asking questions and ask her out
2007-01-02 18:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by K King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋