Everything has changed its been months and iv been trying so hard to just try and forget about everything. All the good memories we had keep on creeping back into my mind. I miss her but the her that i miss dont even exist anymore. Iv been dating and working and playing sports jamming with my band but it always comes back. I am a really happy person but this is jjust messing me up so bad it goes away but always comes back. SHe is not even the type of girl i even want to be with anymore. Why are my feeling still so deep. What can i do for them to block them out. On the outside i appear happy and stuff but my insides have just been killing day in and day out. HELP!!
2007-01-02 09:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were together for 2 years and wow i hate this!!
2007-01-02 10:10:10 · update #1
Stay busy, rememba d bad tyms!
2007-01-02 10:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by SARAH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel what you are going through man. I was in love with my ex-wife for 7 years after our divorce thinking she would always come back, she never did. The point I am trying to make is she may never come back to you and you will always think of her but, ask yourself honestly,"what part did I play in this disaster"? You will never truly be happy with someone else unless you can fully let go of her. I had to have serious therapy from several pyschiatrists for this problem that might not seem serious but, almost took me out, feel me? People you know can suggest what you need to do. Doing it is your part and I know it is easier said than done but, I promise you it does get better with time. Keep your sprits up. She might not have been your "Soulmate" anyway!
2007-01-02 18:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't go away mate. She will haunt you and it seems it will last forever and then this new someone will walk into your life and change your mind about everything and you'll begin to think that the world is her and you need to renew your license to orbit her and eventually your dreams (nightmares) won't even include the skank rat witch who threw your heart in the crapper and flushed it away. Just know only time heals and for some the time is years and others hours..... It's been a year for me and I still wake up bumming out......
2007-01-02 18:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are missing is the good memories. You miss the her that existed in your heart. It seems you know that to some extent. You need to take care of yourself and remember that the pain does go away.
Get help for depression if needed. Don't be afraid to ask your doctor or another professional.
2007-01-02 18:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by choice478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you were with this girl I would take one day at a time and soon enough the heartache will be healed and you can truly move on and just remind yourself that she is not the one that you want to be with and that she is not the same person that you once love and someday you shall find someone new
2007-01-02 18:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any unresolved issues? If so, write her a letter and tell her so you get the last word. You dont need to respond if she does. Just get last word in and move on. Youre a man and youre strong enough to deal with emotions, so act like a man and keep jammin with your band! And no love songs about her either!
2007-01-02 18:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't go away becauze u really love her so much it even happpend to me with my ex-boyfriend untill i found out that he just went out with me because of my money. how long have u went out with her?and right know i'm single.
2007-01-02 18:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by nelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time... is the ultimate healer. let it run and soon it wont really be that big of a deal no more.
2007-01-02 18:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m that sort of person too. I can really feel for you.
2007-01-02 18:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone else that makes u happier then she ever did.
2007-01-02 18:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by LADY CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋