i like a guy at my church and hes about 2-3 years older than me and im a shy type. Also ppl at that churchare the talkiative ones like if i say hi then theyll start rumors. Im really shy...what do you suggest?
sabrina-detroit
2007-01-02 09:47:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey don't worry about what other people think, and if you like him then try to be around him and start talking to him. If he likes you then he will make the next move. good luck
2007-01-02 09:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have fear based on what other people think of me?They think their image will be tarnished.I donot know whether it's true with you or not.But this is a common trend.If you realy like him and he likes you then what's the problem! Ask question to yourself will being shy can get you what you want?I have few freind in Detriot sabrina,and I do handle this kind of situation with them before.Feel free to email me if you want my help to get get what you want.OK? Take care.
2007-01-02 17:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Prakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sabrina,
Just slip him a note either before or after the church without making it too obvious to folks around you.
Often simple looks and a soft smile can convey a lot too. You go girl !!!!
2007-01-02 18:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think. If you really like this guy let him know. At this time you only want to be friends anyway. So it's better to try to make a friend, then to never have tried to make one. Never worry about rumors, you know the truth and that's all matters.
2007-01-02 17:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what the gossips say? You're not doing anything wrong or to be embarassed about. Go say hi to him. And if anyone ask you about it, tell them it's none of their business, or ask them why they want to know (this usually stumps most people, because the only true answer is "I'm nosy").
2007-01-02 17:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From past experience, including many trial and error, the best solution to this problem would be to simply take off all of your clothes in front of the person you get hot for.
2007-01-02 17:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What rumors can be started from a simple "Hi how are you doing?"\
Just talk to him like who he is, a human being.
2007-01-02 17:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by dquestic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a smile, and become his friend. get to know him, and your shyness will go away. Then when he gets to know you, if he likes your personality then you may have a future with this guy, but you have to get to know him so that he sees the real you, not the shy part of you.
2007-01-02 17:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by baby_blue55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him say hi do you got a girl like that "i really like" an such an such and din't worry what other ppl say or think all they are talk about all dis ******** about you which they are called "haters" just tell him how you feel like your feeling if you got any or w.e. you got 2 say 2 him
2007-01-02 17:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by kike070 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi to him out side of churh and try to talk to him he will know that you like him b/c you talked to him and he knows that you are shy forget about what your church says eventuallt they will forget all about that
2007-01-02 17:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋