as hard as it sounds i want to break up w/ my bf. he has been hanging around this other chick that he likes all the time. i need a way to break up w/ him but not a cold harded way. A NICE way be will be great.
2007-01-02 09:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by bmxesforlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no Nice way of breaking up with someone. Just tell him that you don't feel the same way anymore. That, the spark that you guys one had or the chemistry, which ever you prefer is no longer there. That you care about them but just not in the same way. Good luck
2007-01-02 09:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to break up is to tell him you want to or dont call him or answer his calls. He's kept you in the dark for too long and you owe him nothing. Time to see the the light, girl! Dont write him or get friends involved, just end it now because there's a guy right now that would love to call you. Youre right, be nice, but dont let nice turn soft and weak; you have a life too you know.
2007-01-02 09:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's rarely a nice way, usually someone get's their feeling hurt. Wait too long to find the right words and things just get worse. Just to just do it like a band-aid quick & easy, and for the love of God, do not under any circumstances break up then utter the words. "Can we still be friends"
2007-01-02 09:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is really no nice way of breaking up with someone
2007-01-02 09:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he deserves a nice break-up if he is hanging with another chick... But in anycase; talk to him privately. Tell him how you feel about everything.
2007-01-02 09:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by BLiNKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just do it. It sound discomforting but then you are really putting stress on yourself. Besides, it might be good for him to learn a lesson and learn from it. If you want to make a nice way then just say "we should just be friends," or "its not working out."
2007-01-02 09:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Razor Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you should say " you know what? it seems like you want to be with the other girl and not with me" (dont ask why) and i wanna break up with you... (if he appologize dont accept it) "so dont worry i will move on" "this is a new year and a new me"
"good-bye"
so thats it theres no way it will hurt him he has hurted you with another girl...so as i said move on girl...theres always someone better then the last. good luck.
2007-01-02 09:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him his recent behavior signals to you that it's time to go your separate ways and it's a mistake to stay together. Say you'd like to still be friends with him.
2007-01-02 09:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over dinner is always nice, don't do it in private, public is best. Say you have not be happy and are looking for more and not sure he can provide that.
2007-01-02 09:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you feel you are both going your seperate ways and that you would like to end it so you can both experience more things.
2007-01-02 09:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋