what do you do when your on and off with a man, who flips out if you talk to another man but runs from the word commitment such as a relationship. We have all the assets of a relationship but refuses to give his freedom up! WHY is he doing this?!?!?
2007-01-02 09:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ignore this boy, he's not man enough to be called a man. It's obvious he doesn't know what he wants and until he knows that, you're letting him use you. You're better than that, Girl You don't need a boy to make you happy, spend your time with your girlfriends. When you're not looking, that's when you find the right man, and you'll know when you find him!
2007-01-02 15:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing it because you're allowing him to. If he refuses to give up his freedom, you should do the same, and that would include not only talking to, but dating other men. He'll either commit or leave you, put put the ball in his court and the burden on his shoulders.
2007-01-02 17:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is afraid to commit himself to a relationship. Maybe he has a deep buried hurt and is afraid of getting hurt again. If so, it will be hard to get him to open up about. Just support him and have patience. Good luck.
2007-01-02 17:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called control. Dump him, he's not good for you! There is someone out there for you who is willing to commit and choose to be with only you!
2007-01-02 17:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. There's no way we can know. If he won't be forthcoming so y'all can deal with the issue together, then perhaps you aren't a good match for one another.
2007-01-02 17:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing it because he can. Your letting him. You have given all the control to him and your letting him call the shots. Your letting him keep you on the side.
2007-01-02 17:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a man...
No, seriously though, because even though he doesn't want to be with you, he doesn't want you to be with anyone else and therefore you are gonna be stuck with him until YOU decide you are done with him. Otherwise, you are gonna be tread for his shoes.....
2007-01-02 17:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by AngelPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he sees more as a possession than as a person.
2007-01-02 17:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens a lot
2007-01-02 17:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋