my fiancee?

Question

my fiancee tells me that he has a crush on one of my friends and it is just a little crush!!! what should i do right now i am given him a silent treatment ????!!!!!!please help me and i dont want to leave him neither...

Answer 1

Just get over it. It took a lot of courage for him to be open and honest about it. Would you have prefered that he hid this from you. As you go through your life with him there will be men along the way that you find attractive as well. When you have a husband who is open and honest and communicates with you the need to seek satisfaction elsewhere will never be an option. My grandmother always said, "It doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home". Hope that helps and good luck to you both.

Answer 2

You are really gonna have to sit down and think about if this fact is something you can live with. Now that you know, you have to consider if your fiancee, you and your friend will wver be able to hang out. Would you be able to trust him in the future? Maybe you should try talking to him and asking him how he would feel if the tables were turned around. You should appreciate the fact that he told you, but this is something that you may have to live with if you don't want to leave him. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 3

The question is, why would he be telling you this? Did you have an argument? Is he trying to control you? Make you jealous? There's nothing wrong with the fact that he has a crush (everyone "crushes" every once in a while), but the fact that he makes a point of informing you of that tells me he has an agenda. I think, he is trying to control you ("silent treatment" is indicative of that, too); probably not a good idea to marry a control freak - please re-think your engagement to this man.

Answer 4

You said that this is your fiancee (not boyfriend)! Unless this is a joke, a very bad joke. Is he saying this to make you jealous? Does he treat you like this on a normal basis? If you are engaged and he is telling you he currently has a crush on someone else you need to take a step back and rethink your relationship. You said that you don't want to leave him but you may be better off cutting your losses now.

Answer 5

Say well it is ok because I have a crush on one of your friends as well. I am glad we got that out of the way! See how he likes it.
Uhh to all of these people who say do not give him the silent treatment, why would you not want to be mad?

Answer 6

Why would the person you are getting ready to marry, and who says they love you, tell you that they have a crush on your friend? Does that say, I'm ready for a lifetime commitment with you, or I'm an asshole who's just trying to hurt your feelings?

Answer 7

Was this something he admitted under pressure?

Yeah, give him the silent treatment, especially when he's being honest and open and talking about stuff with you. That'll help a lot.

Answer 8

Ok, don't be a b*tch about it. Do not give you're man the silent treatment. You need to talk. It's just a crush..and whats a crush? Nothing...he isn't marring that other person, he isn't sleeping with her, and he certaintly doesn't love her.

If something THIS SMALL gets you all hissy, then maybe you should leave this man before you make his life miserable. You should trust your man, and you don't.

Answer 9

If you have to ask a question, then you know he will probably check out you friend to see if really just a crush or not.
Keep your eyes wide open, something could happen, or maybe too late it already happened.

Answer 10

you must do things that will make your relationship with your fiancee stronger and not will make arguments or whatever. have fun and laugh together, celebrate your love to each other not jealouses or negatives.