I have been best friends with a guy for 10years. (we are 25 now) We have never been boyfriend/girlfriend and have never had sex. We have made out and stuff. We are both doing our own thing socially and academically at the moment. He has told people I am his soulmate and Last week, while we were drinking I told him he was going to marry me. His response, "Ive thought about that" What does this mean, is it good or bad.
2007-01-02 09:37:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kristin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means the two of you should stop playing childish games and make a serious attempt at being together. It is clear from your posting that you both want each other and both love each other. So stop dilly-dallying and make it happen.
2007-01-02 09:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the guy, it could mean several things, you need to decide what. It could mean he really has thought about it, but was too shy or felt it would be too awkward to really talk about a relationship. He could have just tried to express his feelings without going too in depth in case you were kidding. He could also have said this to respond to the stantement without offending you and have not really meant it. Of course, if there is another thought, it is your decision as to what it means. Try talking to him, no matter how awkward it may be. Who knows? You may be a great couple and be with eachother for the rest of your lives.
~Scholar~
2007-01-02 17:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Scholar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Vino Veritas; it is obvious that, after ten years and however many relationships you have both had, he still occupies first place in your heart. You need to have a very serious, heart to heart and face to face conversation with him, and discuss your future.
2007-01-02 17:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point it is just thoughts if you are both interested then have more time together get to know each other better (no im not suggesting sex either)
2007-01-02 17:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one, you need to get him to elaborate some more, while youre not drinking though LOL.
2007-01-02 17:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Hexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good or bad? depends on how you see it do you want to marry him? if yes then its good if not then its bad
2007-01-02 17:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by bestadvice101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want it to mean?? You need to talk to him/be with him when you are sober......could be fun
2007-01-02 17:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO MARRY HIM THAT'S GOOD
2007-01-02 18:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good.
2007-01-02 17:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋