whenever i'm gone for more than an hour, or a guy happens to smile at me, my fiance thinks i'm cheating on him.
2007-01-02 09:35:09 · 11 answers · asked by rachelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump that looser *** dude. He sounds super insecure.
2007-01-04 09:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by sexylatinguy23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Jealousy is an UGLY thing. If this is how he's acting BEFORE you get married, imagine how much worse it will be AFTER you've exchanged "I do's". If you go into this marriage with no trust, don't expect it to just develop later on. The basic foundation of a healthy, loving relationship should have the 3 most important "ingredients": Love, Trust, & Honesty. Just having 2 of the 3 dosen't cut it in the sensitive case of marriage. Let your boyfriend know that there will be NO marriage until he's worked through his "issues".
2007-01-02 17:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that it hurts your feelings that he would accuse you of being that selfish and insensitive. Also, if he's your fiance, he should trust you more, explain that to him. However, if you have a past record, convincing him might be a bit more difficult. Just tell him that he shouldn't get himself worked up over one hour or however long it is.
2007-01-02 17:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must be good looking. Most men are only worried if their spouces or fiance are extremely attractive.
You could dress down, not so nice when you are out? You could try to not be attractive?
Or you could just tell him to grow up!
2007-01-02 17:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is asking you because he thinks you are like him, talk to you men and ask him if he is the one cheating!!
trust me on this one is how a found out my ex was cheating on me....
2007-01-02 17:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~Vale~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless you have cheated on him in the past....then sounds like he has a guilty conscience, or extremely insecure.
2007-01-02 17:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes a little possesive and controlling..i had a b/f like that and it doesnt end good youll be dealing with it your whole marriage if you marry this guy..inless he gets help and changes i dont think hes such a good idea you might end up regretting it youll have no life because of him and how paranoid and posessing he is
2007-01-02 17:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like someone has a guilty conscience. Or is extremly insecure with himself. All you can do is be honest if he cant except that then maybe its not meant to be.
2007-01-02 17:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's paranoid, something you should be wary of if you're planning to get married - or you may have given him a reason to be suspicious.
2007-01-02 17:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same exact thing to him. Let him see how it feels.
2007-01-02 17:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋