ok i invited one of my friends over and her and rob my ex started passin notes and i was not supost to read it well she left the next day and i found the note and read it and i was mad well rob was with my lil bro andm i through the notebook at him and he said oww that hurt and i said it was not supoat to tickel well he left and did not come down for a week and when he came over he hugged me and said he was sorry and said it was a joke and i dont know if i should belive them. and i mean they should of told if they did. do you guys think i should of been ok with it?
2007-01-02 09:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by sassette513 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one should date a friend's ex. It totally destroys the friendship on various levels. It takes two to tango: You friend is going along with it & she's the person you will have influence on, not your ex. Talk to her about it. Tell her how much it would hurt you if she went out with your ex. Explain possible reprocussions. If she still wants to date him after, then she's not a good friend. In that case, forget about both of them.
2007-01-02 09:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by aussie_gurl118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's your ex, so what's the big deal. He's that for a reason, right, you don't break up just because you feel like doing so. Now if this is serious, your friend should have talked to you about it first but still he is not your boyfriend anymore so leave them be.
2007-01-02 17:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your ex, I'm sorry to say that its none of your business. I get angry when I see my ex and the people he hangs out and when girls hang all over him but it shouldnt matter to me and it doesnt because I'm his ex and he can do whatever he wants. If you are no longer going out with him, you have no claims on him.
If it upsets you a lot though, you can either talk to him or to your friend. But that's all you can do.
2007-01-02 17:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by camm300 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's OK for you to be mad. Something similar happen to me. My friend told me she didn't like my ex but next thing you know she stops talking to me. I found out that they were going out. If she was straight forward it wouldn't of mattered but she lied. Just be careful they might be playing you.
2007-01-02 17:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by FaMoUs StAr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know what it said but you shouldnt care about someone that doesnt care about you.
If he cared he wouldnt have been keeping things from you even if he was kidding...if you wouldnt have read it ...would he or ur friend have still told you!!!...
if it bothers u that much and u still want to have them apart of ur life then i think u should still talk to them but dont get n e closer...thats what i think*3
2007-01-02 17:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by BabyCakes*3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he's your ex. He doesn't answer to you. He can date whoever he wants, including your friend.
If you are uncomfortable with him dating your friend then she should respect it and turn him down. If not, then she is not a real friend.
2007-01-02 17:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by choice478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people think its really shallow if their friend does that, but it depends on the situation. If he dumped you then that is shallow of her. However, if you dumped him or the end of the relationship was mutual it shouldn't matter, you obviously didn't want him anyway.
2007-01-02 19:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by maddog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's your friends decision you don't have a say get over it.
2007-01-02 17:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT LOOKS LIKE U STILL HAVE FEELINGS 2 UR EX
U SHOULD TELL UR FRIEND HOW U REAL FEEL ABOUT HIM N' C HOW UR FRIEND TAKES IT.
2007-01-02 17:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a friend dude
2007-01-02 17:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋