If someone breaksup with u because in your relashionship u have lots of fights and tells u, that u aint worth it and that he/she is tired and bored of you... would you keep loving him/her. Would you keep trying to get him/her back? Just because you love that person.
2007-01-02 09:30:04 · 25 answers · asked by Carol M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if my current boyfriend broke up with me, i honestly don't know what i would do, i can't even bring myself to think about it, sometimes he is the only thing that makes me want to live. but, if you have constant fights in a relationship, then it's not a good relationship, and it's not going to go a long way. also, any Guy that says you aren't worth him, isn't worth you. i don't think i would love them after that, well i know i would love my current boyfriend even if he said i was not worth him, because i am not, but i would sure be very angry. no one deserves to be told that they are not good enough, you are good enough & if that guys said that you arent, i would advise you to move on, girl, he's not worth you :]
2007-01-02 09:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I 100% understand the question, but I'll take a stab at it.
Basically I think you're asking "Would you break up with someone you love just because you fight a lot"
If that's the correct question, I would invite the person in question to join me at some couples counseling. Sometimes there are other problems in the relationship that need sorting out.
That said, if I was constantly fighting with my partner, I would not stay in that relationship. I value my sanity too much. Yes it would hurt, but being in an abusive relationship will hurt much more.
2007-01-02 09:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by putermd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that person does have a point.
I mean what's the point? if all you guys do is jumping at each other's throat, then you hardly have any quality time, any fun, any time for a loving and caring relationship, where your love for each other is going to grow.
It's more likely that you're going to end up hating and hurting each other, both psyschologically and physically.
Well, I'd say good proactive thinking to that person.
And if you want any future relationship to work, you have to work on controlling your temper, and learn how to communicate.x
2007-01-02 09:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let it go. Its always hard when someone dumps you before you're ready but if they've had enough, then its never going to work. Make the best of the heartbreak, its nice to feel something sometimes. Get drunk and wallow in it then get back to normal. When you're a cynical, bitter old fart like me, you'll look back with fond memories to the days when you could actually get really emotional about life.
2007-01-02 09:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, this is a relationship that you don't want to be in. What kind of person would say that you weren't worth and was bored of you... how rude, cruel, and unjust !! There are plenty of other people out there more deserving of your love ! I wouldn't go back or even think of it !!! Love or no love, you deserve to have someone whom truely loves you and would never say such a thing...
2007-01-02 09:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey it's called a break up cause it's broken :o) Why would you want to get back with someone who is treating you badly and you are fighting? Let them go if they love you they will come back if they don't then you had a lucky escape :o)
2007-01-02 09:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are telling you that you aren't worth the time or effort you really should leave.
I wouldn't ever love someone if they told me I wasn't worth their time. If they told me something like that I would feel unbelievably hurt and love would fade with time. Love always fades with time and distance
2007-01-02 09:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by lynneboo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If my partner dumped me because he was bored of me, I would think I'd had a lucky escape.
Yeah it hurts for a while. I wouldn't throw myself at him and try and get him back. He doesn't want you and never will!
2007-01-02 09:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by pinkladxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him and try your best to forget about him because they said your not worth their time. that's real low for partner in a relationship to say that. you should move on and get someone that is worth YOUR own time. this person says your not worth their time; but actually; he is not worth your time.
2007-01-02 09:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by BLiNKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason that he/she say's u aint worth it and that he/she is bored of you... is because he/she knows that you'll take them back no matter what. call his/her bluff this time go out with your mates live the single life enjoy urself he/she will soon come running.
2007-01-02 11:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by MEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋