I really like a guy at work. He seems like a pretty shy and quiet guy. He usually keeps to himself. I'm also pretty shy and quiet. How could I be able to tell if he might be interested in me?
2007-01-02 09:27:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he shy but he stll gives hints likes does he look st you any longer than other co workers does he talk to you or like to be around you if so he might like you so just go for it and something might happen
2007-01-02 09:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just listed them to be quite honest because getting involved with people from work usually isn't a good idea. I have done it and know other people as well and i can tell you it's a rule for me, don't get involved with people you work with, it could go really wrong and then you have to see them everyday, especially if you have seniority over him at the job. In your case it seems pretty harmless, seems like a shy guy that has a crush on you but working with you is probably causing more of a hesitation than usual. Honestly if he is shy and he talks to you, that's a good sign, and the touching of the arm or back when he tells a joke....C'mon that is what girls do all the time when they like a guy. If you want to know more without being straight forward, wait until he says the right thing and say don't you have a girlfriend ? If you already know he doesn't have 1 you could just say 1 of the customers said he was cute or something, then ask him what he looks for in a girl/woman. He will probably describe you if he likes you. Good luck.
2016-03-29 04:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure most of us on here are tired of seeing this type of question. JUST ASK HIM TO DO SOMETHING. Get a cup of coffee, go see a movie, take you to a party. Something. Anything. Or you could just continue not speaking to him and always wonder.
2007-01-02 09:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by qmstr725 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im shy myself and like this girl at place she works. I usually look at them very often but try not to stare.
I hope it works out for you good luck!
2007-01-02 09:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something funny. Tell a Joke? Or whatever. If he laughs, out loud? That's a great sign. He wants to impress you with liking your Jokes.
2007-01-02 09:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually quiet people tend to act like they are lookin at something close by you when theyre really lookin at you.. they turn away if you look at them...theyre not so talkative around you....theyre jus silent...then you be the better person and start something new for a try...ad you talk to him if u really like him...youll do it!
2007-01-05 06:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha aka Tee G 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this is what you do, go over to him, dont be scared either and dont be a wuss! go over to him and say: " I like you and i want to know if sometime maybe we can go out for some icecream or something." if he dont react to that he either has a girlfriend or is gay.. Good luck.
2007-01-02 09:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by bidemlikeyougotem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might make a special effort to talk 2 you, or he might suddenly seem more...sociable..more ready to talk 2 people (which includes you)..hope that helps!!
2007-01-02 09:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by bad to the bone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im 13 and u should make him feel comfortabable with you. Mabey tell him ur intrests p.s guys will usally agree i would no. Thats wat my gf did and now im talking to her every day i luv her.
2007-01-02 09:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch him and see if he gets a bulge in his pants. If he does, he is interested.
2007-01-02 09:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋