We have been friends since we were little kids in dipers. one day we are just haning out at the mall, lke we always do and he just said that he loved me and i just went blanks i haven't answered any of his phone calls wat do i do?
2007-01-02 09:24:20 · 28 answers · asked by Cheerleader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-02 09:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's gay, a guy hanging out with you at the mall means he loves you, otherwise he would be out with is buddies...you probably have known deep down that he loves you for a while, right? Be nice but let him get over you because he probably has been feeling this way a long time and it is driving him so crazy he finally had to blurt it out. Give him time to get over you... Unless you are attracted to him, then you should go have amazing sex between two close people.
2007-01-02 09:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by skylerthomas101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever felt something between you two have you ever had feelings for him at all you should answer his calls that not cool you should tell him how you feel and tell him why you havent been answering the phone the best thing to do is think it over and ask your self if you like him if you should try going out with him and see how it works dont be aafriad of wat might happen always be his friend til the end no matter wat if it doesnt turn out how you want it then sit down with him and talk to him ask him questions and ask him how lond has he loved you ok dont be afraid if you need any more help ask me k here is my myspace thing ( ILoveBlood&Gore@yahoo.com ) or my yahoo ( Simpleplan_is_awesome@yahoo.com )
2007-01-02 09:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, answer him. the worst pain for someone in love is the ignorance of the one they love. You also have to be sure it really is love and not just infatuation. and finally be sure you love him too or if you don't. Be honest with him and don't run from your feelings. even if it is "no" just say something to him. Nothing says you still can't be friends and some of the best couples really do know eachother all their lives
~Scholar~
2007-01-02 09:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Scholar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the feeling is mutual, then go for it. If not, then you could just tell him that you do care deeply about him but not like that. You could tell him that you still want to be friends but that if he needed time, you were willing to give it to him (of course, only if this is the truth). But be honest and open with him. Good luck to you, this is a though one
2007-01-02 09:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If he truly is your best friend I think he deserves an honest answer on how you feel. That and you also have to think of how much courage it takes to come out and tell you how he feels. He has probably feel that way for a long time!
2007-01-02 09:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should first of all stop ignoring him because that was probally the hardest thing for him to do and now he is probally freaking out. so confront him about it. tell him we hav been friends this long and you are really like a brother to me and i could never see you as anthing more then my best friend. whatever you say you need to deal with it so you guys can still be friends
2007-01-02 09:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by justashley541 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are different levels and type of love first . second you needs to talk to him and find out exactly what did he means when he said it. did he mean in a romantic way or as best-friends. third i do not think you are being a friend at all by not talking to him, friend would talk and not leave each other hanging
2007-01-02 09:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by bigdaddyleon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say wow sorry i havent answered your calls. I really have to think about this. And if you like him i would go out with him, if you dont then say i dont feel that way about you right now can we just be friends? Good Luck
2007-01-02 09:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~raspberrytruffles~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back and set up a date with him, and if it doesn't work out then just tell him, no hard feelings but I don't have those feelings for you.
2007-01-02 09:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him that if you guys dated and happen to break up or something you'd loose a good friendship that has lasted this far & you'd like it to last a lifetime!
2007-01-02 09:30:29 · answer #11 · answered by ~brunette♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋