ok my bf ex is sending me mental she is still madly in love with my bf so is trying to break me and him up. here sum stuff she been doing
looking at my myspace and texting him about any chnages i have done ( this one back fired when she told him about me putting i really like him and he likes me back coz he like me saying that)
phoning him when he round mine saying that she needs him to come round as she gona kill hersefl
or saying im cheating on him
trying to get people to hate me at school
i also found out she paid my bro £60 to attack my bf so he will dump me
my bf is getting annoyed at her he hangs up the phone on her and deletes her texts without answering them he even called her a stupid whore that he hates but she still trying to get back with him
how can we stop her
2007-01-02 09:14:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh i know that feeling all too well. That's what's going on right now. You just gotta try to ignore her because her ultimate goal is to make you feel bad and make you sad and everything else along those lines. You can't let her do that to you!! Always pretend (if you're not already) to be happy because it will make her really mad and like what she is doing doesn't bother you. That's the only thing that has worked for me so far because I've even confronted her and it makes no difference at all because she's not the type of person who cares. Over time she will get over him so you just gotta hang in there because you don't want your relationship ruined because of her. I learned to just work past my boyfriend's ex and just ignore her because I don't need people like her ruining my life and ruining my great relationship with my boyfriend. Just be strong and don't let her get in the way!! Believe me, I know JUST how you feel. Good luck. You can refer to one of my past questions that is very similar to this one and you will get some good advice as well, it is titled boyfriend's ex won't give up. Ok hope I helped :)
2007-01-02 09:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by sparkzxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend knows what he's doing. IGNORE HER. The only reason she's being so ridiculous & flamboyant is because she is recieving attention for it. Convince your friends & yoruself that she's not worth your time. Stop worrying about her (the problem is between her & your boyfriend and obviously he is handling it fine). The more attention you give her the more she's going to act this way. If you forget about her, she will run out of steam & quit. When people ask you what you think about her say "I don't care about her & I have nothing to say to or about her". The faster you convince everyone that she isn't having an effect on you & yoru relationship, the faster everyone as well as the ex, will loose interest. This is a lot of pointless drama fueled by attention.
2007-01-02 09:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by aussie_gurl118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetheart, But she is not trying to get him back. She is only getting back at him for what he did to her in the past. Like leaving her for you, Or Just not being a good b/f when they where together. Tell your b/f to man up and face what ever it was that he did to this young lady. And then you & him and his ex sit down and talk about the problem in the past. And forgive eachother & then you & your boyfriend can move on with your life.
2007-01-02 09:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign a formal complaint against this person for harassment,if she personally does anytig to you you do NOT have to put up with s h i t like that. and why doesn't your bf CHANGE his phone number (i assume its a cell phone) if her calls are bothering HIM? all he has to do is call the phone co and tell them he is recieving harassing calls and they wil chnage the number ONE TIME for free ..so he should be careful who he gives it out to next time. of course if he is not bothered by it then how much of a bf is he REALLY to you, or maybe you need to quit acting so jealous if this girl gets NO reaction from you she will prolly stop and if your BF likes it all HER attention... then maybe you should get a new bf hes a jerk
2007-01-02 09:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not your problem. It's your bf's problem. Tell him that if he doesn't take care of this, you are going to break up with him. Have him call the police and get a restraining order. It's not that hard to do.
2007-01-02 09:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want to have your cake and eat it too...the other question you asked was whether or not you should date this guy that's 12 years older than you who helps you out with your problems that your present BF leaves you in...which is it??? Make up your mind...either stay with this one, date the other one or do both and stop asking stupid questions!!!
2007-01-02 22:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA she paid your brother 60 pounds to attack him and HE DID IT? holy cr@p that is the funniest thing i've ever heard i'm almost in tears here, honey!
it sounds like your boyfriend and you should make sure that he understands that he is trying to submarine you, and then just ignore her,
(ps--can i have your brother's phone#? haha, just joking, i don't date anyway....)
2007-01-02 09:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call 9-1-1 or get a restraining order
2007-01-02 09:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is call the police, tell ur parent/guardian to call or you call urself, and tell them you are seriously being harrased that should stop it. Or have a girl to girl conversation with her and tell her exactly how you feel about him, and ask her to please respect your relationship.
2007-01-02 09:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by jimckinnon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if i where i will beat that ***** so damn good she will forget she ever liked him **** try to hoook her *** up so she can stay the **** out of your life also u may want to carry a good weapon on you if she don't stay away then call a mental home for her
2007-01-02 09:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋