Why is it some of the really attractive women seem drawn to men that treat them like second class citizens. when there are men out there that would know how to treat a lady. what really gets your attention first when you see a man?
2007-01-02 08:43:30 · 18 answers · asked by Mike S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the same reason that some guys say they'll call and don't... it's all about the chasing and playing games. These are the boys and girls that don't really want a real realtionship. The first thing I notice are eyes.... and then the personality.
2007-01-02 08:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being the nice guy. And there is nothing wrong with the way you look. If you want to start lifting weights or something then do it, but do it for yourself, not for someone else. The right woman will come along for you at the right time. It just might take some time. Don't become a jerk. Women don't like jerks despite what you think or hear. Quit analyzing everything about yourself and just be yourself. Be happy. A good attitude will win the right woman.
2016-03-29 04:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Geraldine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply being attractive is no guarantee that you are bright enough to know whats good for you. And physical attraction isn't always enough to maintain an interest past the first date or two.
I like good men with a twinkle in their eye and a sense of the humor of everyday life, unfortunately, you can't see that until you are attracted by something physical, so I like a man with strong forearms too. If nothing else is working for a man...dress well. As a group we are more forgiving of mens physical appearance than we are of a womans.
2007-01-02 08:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes both ways....
you see men are also attracted to women who are out of this world... I don't know maybe... this would actually means equillibrium. Imagine a man who is so kind and everything being in love with a girl that is out of this world... now who would be able to explain that.
Got series of relationships that when i come to think of it one way or the other kinda weird the reason why, maybe.....
In the strickest sense, the world is really strange, we dont get to have who we really like doesnt like us, and those who like us are the one we take forgranted....
Funny as it may sound but that's how it seems
2007-01-02 08:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why a lot of women are attracted to men like that is because the want someone who "acts like a real man" but they don't realize that "real men" don't treat women like dirt. They can be masculine and jockish, but that doesn't mean they have to act like jerks. I don't think women some understand that.
2007-01-02 08:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they give them a lot of attention, even though it might be the WRONG kind of attention. Women like attention, but they also need to be respected too which it why any relationship with a jerk is well, useless. I've never personally felt like this before but many of my really good friends have. I appreciate men who respect me for me and have a good head on their shoulders. They also need to have good posture and be crazy about me, in a good way, as in wanting the best for me.
2007-01-02 08:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy who knows how to treat a lady is the one having a hard time getting dates in the first place.
Theres a long drawn out theory behind it, but once you have easy access to something you abuse it. If you dont, you cherish it and in doing so you move to fast and usually freak the girl out.
Bottom line is life sucks for you.
2007-01-02 08:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some women just don't have their heads on right. Believe me Im a woman and I totally agree with you. I am most attracted to how a guy approaches me and talks to me on our first date. I just love a guy that is honest and has a sense of humor. When a guy is just being rude I blow them off and thats it. Some girls just live with it because as they say they love them but they just dont know what they are talking about.
2007-01-02 08:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we think we can change them into nice men, then realize that is impossible to do and if we want to be happy we need to find ourselves a nice man who will treat us right. It's trial by error for the most part. I dated two mean looser men, before i smartened up and gave a really nice guy a chance...and i'm so glad i did, i have fallen head over heals for him. I never knew it could be soooo good! 3rd time was a charm for me..:)
2007-01-02 08:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are jerks didn't you know ? Even when you give the nice guy a shot all of a sudden he gets his head big and becomes a jerk. I guess they say to themselves "Well I got her so maybe I can get better". Like I said, all men are jerks so dont blame us. The pickins are slim.
2007-01-02 08:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋