My boyfriend is sooo sweet but always trying to get in my pants and i have no freaking clue what to do HELP?

Answer 1

do it.

Answer 2

Is it a matter of 1) you not having had sex before and you don't know how to tell him you're not ready? Or 2)the two of you have had sex before, but now he wants it all the time, WAY more than you do?

1) You just need to tell him straight up that you're not ready and he needs to understand and respect your feelings about the situation. If he continues to pressure you, then he doesn't need to be your boyfriend becasue he obviously has more respect for the member in his pants than you.

2) You need to again, tell him that you're not into it that much. Having sex all the time can actually turn you off even more to the idea, causing you to enjoy it and want it less. if he is a good man, and enjoys pleasuring you as much as himself he needs to back off a little, let you come get it when you're wanting it, rather than him fishing for it all the time. It's good to feel wanted, but not pressured. At the same time, don't hold out on him for weeks at a time, that may drive him to be unfaithful.

I'm assuming the two of you are proably fairly young, I can't say that i've known many...if any...guys around my age (20+) that are as animate about getting laid often by the same willing participant. those that are still on a sexual high by this time have usually found and utlize more than one woman to fulfill the needs.

Answer 3

You should never have sex unless you are COMPLETELY comfortable. I am apalled at the other answers to your question...they were disrespectful and not helpful. But...it sounds like you are still in your teens, and my advice is not to NOT have sex, but to think about it first. No matter how sweet he is, are you ready to be a mother? What if he was sooooo sweet to some other girl, and he got syphilis? Just think about all of the consequences before you decide to share your body with someone.

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel about it. It is pressuring you to do something you are not yet ready for, only you know when you will be ready. Tell him that, it is a magical thing the first time, and you want it to be special. If he loves you, he will wait, if not, he didn't deserve to wait for you.

Answer 5

Maybe he LOVES sex and LOVES having it with you!! I say if the 2 of you are active than try and make each other happy. But if you are still a virgin....hold out as long as you can and if he can not respect that than find a man that will!

Answer 6

You could try having a talk with him, calmly stating how you feel.Try doing some romantic things with him that don't give him chances to have sex, but instead build your love for each other.

Answer 7

Try talking ot him...what is important is if you feel good in your relationship and it's not selffish. I fh e really is the gentleman he acts like then he can wait for you. Dont just try to please him because he is really sweet. If he is really sweet he will listen to how you feel and wait for you.
What matters is your happiness!

Answer 8

Tell him to stop it! If he persist quit him. BUT if he forces himself on you it's called RAPE! WHICH IS AGAINST THE LAW. HE can't keep harrassing you for sex! It's disrespectful and rude. Email me if you have any questions

Answer 9

Tell him to buy his own damn pants.... With no other information that's the best advice that I can give you.

Answer 10

What's keeping you from letting him in? If he's your boyfriend, then he belongs in your pants. It's his right and privilege. You are not his girlfriend at this point. He will not think that he is your boyfriend, and in which case, he will start to date other people.

You are delusional if you think he is just going to wait. He will eventually seek it elsewhere if you do not provide what he needs.

Answer 11

Tell him no and that ur not ready 4 that kinda relationship.