He hasn't been calling me back when he says he's going to etc... So I sent him a text saying "If you think it aint gonna work between us or somethings bothering you then I'd prefer you tell me" I recieved a reply bout 10hours later saying "Everything is good, no need to worry!" What do you make of his reply?
2007-01-02 08:37:58 · 18 answers · asked by Talitha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's being alil sacastic! I think he thinks I'm overeacting but he doesn't call regularly, that's why I sent him it. But I suppose he DID reply!
2007-01-02 08:43:11 · update #1
Pay attention to what he DOES, not what he SAYS or TEXTS. These are completely different things. You are so gullible, he could tell you that he's planning on getting you a new car for Valentines, and you would believe it. I could tell you I love you and to show you how much I love you, I want to give you a spending allowance of $10,000 a month. It doesn't necessarily make it true.
It's a shock to you, I know, but people lie. Wake up. You should start lying to him too and start dating other people.
2007-01-02 08:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's see...How can I put this kindly!!!
He is stringing you along. He is full of himself and apparently he thinks he has you wrapped so far around his finger that he lacks the respect for you.
It takes no effort at all to call or text a love one. He simply doesn't care but maybe doesn't know how to say it.
If you are willing to accept this behavior, it will just get worse...don't allow him to treat you that way.
Tips:
The next time he calls....be unavailable, don't answer the phone or keep it short.
Let him know that you have better things to do.
Let 10 hours past before you text him back, but make it seem real casual...like you were busy doing something else, DON'T make it seem like revenge!!!
Start going out with your friends a little more
Stop calling him....let him miss you and if he never calls then you know that he's dating someone else.
No need to ask him to solidify your break-up!! Move on with your life...you don't need his permission!!!
Good luck!!!
2007-01-02 08:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you. Point blank. Text him back and tell him "You're right, everything is good because I have moved on to someone who actually knows something about being a MAN. Sorry to cut this so short, but he just pulled up. Have a nice life, I'm out."
2007-01-02 08:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Golden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him better than you can tell him, that two can play at that game. when he calls, don't answer; when he texts, don't respond. there is no excuse why it should take 10 hours to respond to your text. that would make me feel as of I'm not worthy of common courtesy and respect. make him wonder where you are for a change. with all the extra time he's leaving you with you could be finding someone else who has time for you. All the best.
2007-01-02 08:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing him I'd say "everything is good, no need to worry". Unless you find a mind reader, no one can tell you more than that...we can all speculate all day long, but that's really meaningless.
Talk to him about it, if it troubles you that he doesn't keep in touch as often as you think he should.
2007-01-02 08:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a doll on a shelf--he takes you down when he wants to play--Do not put up with that --live your life and if by chance you don't have plans when he wants to do something then fine otherwise he can sit and wait for you--turn the tables--
2007-01-02 08:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 13:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by holness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what perhaps you should just leave him and find some one appreciative. Let him suffer like you are and if he doesn't well then you know the truth. Move on and know your better.
2007-01-02 08:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like he's using you, but to wait 10 hours sounds like you are not a high priority with him.
2007-01-02 08:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you stop using text messages. If you have an actual conversation, you can ask him this question yourself and get your answers much more quickly and directly.
2007-01-02 08:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋