I've been seeing/dating the same guy for the last 6 months. I recently found out from a mutual friend that he had a girlfriend that he just broke up with a month ago. I asked him on several different occasions while we were seeing each other during the 6 month time period if he was seeing anyone, in which he replied no every time. Although we weren't 'official' yet, I still feel betrayed. I told him not only will we never have a romantic relationship, but also our friendship can't contiue. He apologized and explained that he could not find a way to break it to her earlier and it was hard for him to tell me that cause he thought that he would lose me. It would have been alright had he told the truth from the start. I feel I did the right thing. Should I have given him another chance?
2007-01-02 08:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by Hotness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes give him another chance..a lot of people dont really treat a relationship seriously at the beginning.
2007-01-02 08:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't official. This means he has the right to date other people. If he already started lying to you before you were official it doesnt look good for the future. If it were me, i'd move on. Don't waste youre time.
2007-01-02 16:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not even debatable. Trust is everything, and he lied to you for 5 months.
If he cheated on his girlfriend for 5 months, and lied to you for 5 months, how or why should you trust him when he says "You are the only girl in my life."
2007-01-02 16:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has anyone ever given you a second chance? Life is about forgiveness! Its a new year, a new start..give it the green light!
2007-01-02 17:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by shannon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheeter always a cheater........You go gurl>>Don't ever let him know you give a hoot.Just be unconcerned and move on,Lesson learned.Never play second fiddle to anyone!!!!Be good Stay true to yourself.Good Luck God Bbless You!!!!
2007-01-02 16:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by mcnatt c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Dishonesty so early in the relationship regardless of his reason is unacceptable.
2007-01-02 16:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends....do you think you will ever have to ask for a second chance from someone? Anyone?
Choice ,instinct, decision, and charma!
2007-01-02 16:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! If he lied to you once, he'll do it again! Not only did he lie, he continued the lie for 5 months....to spare her feelings????? Oh please!....NO, you need to send him packing! Good Luck!
2007-01-02 16:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, wait a minute here. You and him were not offical right? So, he dumped her to be with you Right? So, why are you so hurt? you should feel lucky he picked you.
2007-01-02 16:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You should always be up front about stuff like that. It's good that you dumped him because he is a pu*ssy.
2007-01-02 16:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋