I have been dating this guy for about a month and we are so happy together make the perfect couple until recently I went to his house and met his friends for new year's and they tell that I try to kiss his friend which I never did and he broke up with me and I try to talk to him today telling him I did no such thing that I love him more than anything that I swore on my fiance's grave who passed in sep that I would never hurt him. What can I do?
2007-01-02 08:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by chanlen2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your boyfriend is a jerk..you dont need someione like him in your life.
2007-01-02 08:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do. If you've sworn on a past lover's grave and everything that you didn't try to kiss this guy, then he'll either believe you....or he'll believe his friends.
You wont be able to sway his decision by repeating your promise never to hurt him.
If I were you, I would say one more time (and hopefully he prompted you & you're not just beating a dead horse), "look - I know in my heart I didn't try to kiss your friend. Either you believe me or not. Make your choice."
2007-01-02 16:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his friend. Ask him why he would say such a thing. Try to convince him to tell your ex the truth. Once you get that straightened out keep telling your ex that you love him and hope that he believes you soon enough. Good luck!!
2007-01-02 16:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Damia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Swearing on an old lover's grave is kind of creepy. Just talk to him. If he can't get over something you didn't do, then he's not good for you anyway.
2007-01-02 16:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on. He sounds like he's not going to budge and what's the point of pursuing something with someone who obviously has no faith in you.
2007-01-02 16:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Myself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fiance passed away in september? and you are already out and about dating a new guy?? Sounds like you did not care much about your fiance.
2007-01-02 16:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is something wrong in this story. Maybe he arranged this with his friend to broke up with you. Be aware of that!
2007-01-02 16:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say...let things calm down for a bit. Give him a little time..then try and talk to him again..
2007-01-02 16:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he doesnt believe you that means he must of set it up with his friends so it can give him a reason to leave you
2007-01-02 16:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋