ok me and this girl have been friends for about 4 years now and we know each other very well. for some reason i am all of a sudden feeling very attracted to her and i want to be with her all the time. but its not like its a girl i just randomly met, so if i do tell her how i feel and she doesnt feel that way, then im thinking that it might be allittle awkward some of the time. is there any way that i can get just a little hint if she likes me but not coming out and asking her? oh btw we are both15-16 to get an age group for yas. thanks everyone
2007-01-02 08:30:51 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her if she would ever date you but say a lot of other boys names too..put your name somewhere in the middle so she doesnt suspect a thing.
2007-01-02 08:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her or if you feel shy about that, you could always try chatting with her and a bit of flirting or teasing in a friendly manner.. You can ask her to the movies or something like that but more casual way rather than a date and see how she reacts. I took a friend of mine out for some ice-skating and there well hints all through out that he liked me. She might just open up.
2007-01-02 08:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by "LikeGodButBetter" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her....just let her know that after all this time of being friends, you have found yourself to be attracted to her...also let her know that your biggest concern is that awkward feeling if she does not feel the same way. Let her know that there will be no hard feelings if she does not feel the same way...and that you will not pressure her into a relationship because you value your friendship way too much!!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-02 08:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up to the plate!
Tell her you are feeling different about her - ask her to see a movie or take a walk together!
Be positive and make a move - Its the mans job!
2007-01-02 08:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Slim Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, you already feel awkward anyway. If she's really a good friend like you think she is, she'll probably not make you feel bad. I think she'll be flattered even if she doesn't respond the same way.
2007-01-02 08:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Being friends first is often one of the best indicators for a potentially successful long-term relationship. You already like each other and can communicate.
But once you take your relationship into dating you may not be able to go back for just friends.
Tell her, "I think I'm falling for you" or some such thing. If she doesn't like it then laugh it off.
2007-01-02 08:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends if u think she "attractive" or if u want to go out with her. there a lot of old people that are attractive but if u want to go out with some one as old as ur mom that probably start menopause's that's weird as hell go out and find someone else probably ur age area
2016-05-23 07:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something nice like roses on valentines day. and leave a note saying "thanks for being a good friend" or something. if she starts acting warmer to you, go ahead and tell her. but if she acts more distant, then act like the roses were nothing and you guys are still 'just friends' and nothing more. good luck.
2007-01-02 08:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by rentalsocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel because sooner or later she will think that you are acting so weird if you dont and you guys are close anyway so just tell her
2007-01-02 08:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, as a girl tell her give her the respect and dignity us girls need and tell her that you like her make sure she understands that you want to give her the respect and dignity she needs, all the girls i know like that type of thing hope it helps!
2007-01-02 08:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋