I like a girl but I don't know if she really likes me. Everytime we see each other we end up making out, but she told my friend who's dating her best friend that she wouldn't wanna go steady with me. I found this out when we were at a club, so I went with another girl.
However, this seemed to annoy her and she made my friend tell me that she does like me. Then we ended up kissing again on New Years Eve and had a good time, but I dunno if I should chase after her.
What do I do? I'd like to go steady with her. Does she want a relationship though? What do u think?
2007-01-02 08:26:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks like shes playing hard to get.. dont let her string you along.. stop giving her what she wants.. make her come after you and show you what she wants.. enough with the games..
2007-01-02 08:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by yourmygoodfeeling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would like a relationship with her but you need to know if she feels the same way before continuing. There's no use carrying on if the same feelings aren't being shared by both parties, it's a waste of time and hurt feelings and resentment are not worth it.
Life is too short to get involved in a girl who is playing games, there is so many others who are waiting to find someone like you.
2007-01-02 08:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a woman knows a guy likes her, even though she doesn't like the guy back, they get jealous if the guy is or likes another girl. some women want all the attention and hate competition. either she is a very confused and immature girl that doesn't know what she wants, or she just want to play with you.... why don't you ask her once to see her reaction, if she doesn't give you an answer, just forget about her, i don't see a relationship of any kind... if she wants to keep fooling around then use her as you want, at the end that's what she wants, right?
2007-01-02 08:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you to chase her. And she probably likes you, she just isn't exactly comfortable with it just yet. Then again, she could be one of those girls that uses guys as temporary play pretties. I really couldn't tell you since I don't know her. But you'll never know unless you try to find out, so i would say try chasing after her for a little bit and if things don't change, then she just wants a boy toy. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 08:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Quentin's Mommy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears as though she does not know what she wants and if she truly wants you, she should make it clear. You may need to speak with her and let her know that she is sending mixed messages and you do want to go out with her, however if she cannot make up her mind you are going to go on with or without her. She may not take you seriously, don't date any other girls in the mean time, it may take her a few weeks to know that you mean business. If she truly wants to be with you, she will be back. As the old addage goes, " If you love something/someone let it go. If it comes back, its meant for you to keep, if not then it was never yours in the first place.".
2007-01-02 08:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing: I don't think so. Either she's gossiping about your relationship, or she just wants attention. To my opinion, she's just jealous that you went with another girl, and your girlfriend is trying to win you back.
Two: Try comparing her with the other girl that you went with. Which one do you prefer? Just ignore the looks and the popularity, and just go with their personality. Judge them. Pick the one that treats you like their equal and actually likes you.
Three: She just want to make the other girl jealous. She doesn't sound like a nice person. Dump her.
2007-01-02 08:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixtakaramono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure of your age but it sounds like she's a little inexperienced in the dating game. Probably she wasn't sure if she liked you or not until there was a possiblity of you choosing someone else. If I were you, I'd ask her out, see how it goes and let things unfold as they will.
2007-01-02 08:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chasing only leads to resentment, let her do her thing. If she thinks anything of your relationship she will realise that she cant expect to flirt and keep you happy. I'd say time will tell, but dont pin hopes on it or you will be waisting time while she is fulfilling her fantasies.
2007-01-02 08:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just talk to her and let her know how you feel? It'll be a lot more eiaser that way and it'll be more of a better solution for both you and her sake. If she likes you, she'd understand where your're comming from and if she doesnt, just forget about her. The point to this is.....TALK TO HER!!!!
2007-01-02 08:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you should chase her. Ask her straight up and let her know that if all she wants is a lustful union so it be it, but you are willing to offer her more.
2007-01-02 08:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋