and you see him and his friends nearly everyday and you try to avoid his myspace yet you can't help wondering how he is, i'm having real trouble getting over my ex yet he acts as if nothing ever happened and said he doesn't feel the same anymore. Is he not hurting too? i've had no contact with him and he seems happy but is this an act?
2007-01-02 08:23:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is terrible, I know. Here is your best revenge or pick me up...Get a new haircut, get a new job or car, look great. If you see him again, act like it doesn't phase you. The more heartbroken you look the less attractive you are. Go out with your friends and treat some guys badly then find the one. This ex will one day regret it. Just look like a lady even if you are dying inside. Avoid the computer, radio, his friends and do not take his phone calls...be busy and cut it short....you'll keep everyone wondering.
2007-01-02 08:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and play the same game. Perhaps he does still feel something for you but he is trying to deny it.
On the other hand, (and this could be a more sobering thought) perhaps he never felt anything for you in the first place.
Find yourself some other friends, and spend more time with them.
As a long term single person I can give you heaps of tips for occupying your mind with other thoughts to stop you thinking about what it is you don't want to think about.
What it is I don't want to think about is that I don't have a patner, this thought leads to thoughts of lonliness, and those sorts of thoughts are really depressing.
Do some other stuff.....like get a job.....if you already have one, get another one (I highly reccommend jobs that focus on helping others, becuase they will help take your mind off your problems), improve your education, take up a hobby, or some other creative pass time.
The less time you have to think about this ex-love, the easier it becomes to get over him.
best of luck for the future
2007-01-02 16:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something where you can just turn it off and act like nothing happened. Even if you are busy with other things you will still think about it. Time will tell. Sometimes you can never stop loving someone and thats the worse feeling if you are not together. Your world stops, you wake up every morning and feel empty.
I wish you all the happiness
2007-01-02 16:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way out of an old love is to find a new one. You're still hung up this guy, let him pass and open up to a new guy. Good Luck. He is not hurting over you.
2007-01-02 16:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that people think that love has an on and off switch?? You may never stop loving him he will hold a place in your heart for maybe forever--that's normal --but there will be a day that you will move on find another and be happy
2007-01-02 16:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself busy and meet more new friends
2007-01-02 16:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself happy.....
2007-01-02 16:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋