I love her
2007-01-02 08:22:17 · 22 answers · asked by Richie DC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
she wants to!! im 29
2007-01-02 08:47:44 · update #1
you were a virgen up to two weeks ago weren't you? lol, slow down killer, you'll be glad you waited awhile either way.
2007-01-02 08:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait for at least a year, but probably two to three years is the best. Two weeks is not nearly enough time to know for sure if you love someone. I'm sure you feel love now, but if you really don't know a person, those first feelings of love can quickly fade away. Also, those first feelings of love need to transform into the deeper, lifetime love which is not nearly so thrilling or romantic as the movies make it appear. Love is work. You have to work on it everyday, or it goes bad.
Also, I was in a marriage that happened too quickly, and things ended in a very ugly manner. I do not wish this on anyone, so take your time. Marriage should not be entered lightly.
2007-01-02 16:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by joleiey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got engaged after three months, but two weeks after I met him we were already talking marriage. We were BOTH absolutely sure that we were the ones for each other. When you know you know. So you can't live your lives based on the time line that others give you. And you can't do it based on age, being 29 has nothing to do with it. If you love her and she loves you that won't change in 2 years or 20 years. Loving someone is easy, but living with them is another story. Get engaged if you want, but take at least 6 months to a year to actually get married. If it's true love AND chemistry AND friendship, it will stand. Good luck.
2007-01-02 16:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in 2 years.
2007-01-02 16:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited 5 years before I got married. Over the past 7 years of marriage, there have been no surprises in our relationship. When you marry someone you just met, you learn things about them that may drive you apart too late. Unless you want a high probability for divorce, wait. Besides, are you sure that she is 'that' into you as well?
2007-01-02 16:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by millsy311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one year and 11 and a half months. Marriage is for life, you need to know who your marrying before you make the leap and no matter how much you love this person now, you stil don't truly know her and to TRULY love someone, you need to know them inside and out, know her goals, morals, dreams, how she behaves in life, what kind of choices she makes. All that takes time. And if you want to spend the rest of your life with her, INVEST the time in her that it would take to get to know her, which takes about two years. Whether she has a ring on or not, you're still together so just relax and have fun and don't rush things, life goes fast enough on its own.
2007-01-02 16:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how long have you known this girl? If you are at least 20, and have known her all your life, then I think that if you propose now it will be fine. If you are in your teens, why do you want to get married now? Life is too short, you should enjoy it while you can. If you do like her, and haven't known her that long, then wait a while - you'll be glad you did.
2007-01-02 16:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by quizicalgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it on an odd day that she would never suspect. Like Feb 29th of a leap year or St. Pattys day. My fiance did it on Nov. 17th. No idea why but had so idea that day. It was great. Any major holiday is a cop out and wussy. I think it means more when it is done differently. I know I will never forget my engagement!
2007-01-02 21:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Peek A Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose to her after you've been dating for 2 years... If you love her now...let's see if you love her then. If you do, chances are the marriage will work.
2007-01-02 17:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA... you had to just lost it.
this is what i did. every time i thought about getting married, I found the neerest door and slammed a certain exterior organ in it (the whole thing... not just "part of 'it'").
Cuz that's kinda what it's like. If you're ok with the feeling that results from that particular action, then buy her a ring from Kays (c) jewlry (Because every kiss behins with kay), and propose to her in a resturaunt with a bunch of people while a random italian band belts out "Amore" in the background.
-Kohvu
2007-01-02 16:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by redphoenix72 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Woaaahhhhh there.....cool your jets, Brother!! You are jumping the gun a little I think. You need to take more time to get to know each other before deciding on something like marriage. Wait awhile and just enjoy getting to know her and let her have time to get to know you. You will be better off in the long run if you give your relationship time to develop. Good luck.
2007-01-02 16:34:48 · answer #11 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋