This guy I'm seeing, we're not officially in a relationship. However, when I go down to see him, he treats me like a princess, tells me he wants a child with me, says he loves spending time with me hints at marriage, but when you're away from him, he doesn't call very often? he's ignored my text saying "If you don't think it's gonna work between us or something is bothering you, then you know I'd prefer you to tell me hun x" Why is he doing this? I'm going to see him next weekend aswell.
2007-01-02 08:18:25 · 25 answers · asked by Talitha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants to get you into bed.
2007-01-02 08:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a guys point of view and not knowing either of your I think it could be one of the following.
a) he is really busy with other things and he doesn't realize he doesn't call often enough
b) he could have a different definition to your relationship than you do
c) he may not be sure he is ready for a relationship and is just testing the waters
d) he could just be a flirt and not serious at all
e) he could just be in it for sex
That's all the answers I can come up with, I'm sure others will think of more. I hope for your sake it's one of the first three. If I were you, I'd try and sit down with him and talk about what's bothering you, if he's serious about you then he should commit to being your bf. If he's not, then it's time to start thinking about kicking him to the curb.
2007-01-02 16:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Car Nut 527379 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to have confidence. You can call him when he doesn't call. Make sure you don't put him on the phone for hours. Just be brief and nice. Tell him that you love to hear him. You hope he can also call you now and then to make you happy. Guy are not good on phone any way. Don't bug him with those negative type of messages. If you really want to, talk with him face to face with a more positive tone. Talking with him how you both can plan future together. Grow up! Be a mature woman.
2007-01-02 16:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he wants to have bleep with you but he has no commitment to you in the long haul. Don't fall for this my friend and get out of this relationship before your life gets destroyed by a user. They all say they will be there for you and help with the baby but then after the baby they screw out of dodge and they don't want anything to do with you anymore. Please don't ruin your life I'm begging you. Take care kid and if you need a real friend i'm hear for you.
2007-01-02 16:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by tedrp1962 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's doing that because he has another chick on the side. Men are full of games and lies. They tell you what you want to hear when you're in their face and ignore you when you're away. Leave him alone and please do not have a child by this man!!!
2007-01-02 16:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Noodle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's manipulating a naive girl. Any man who wants you to have a baby without him marring you is a loser. Wake up!!! He's saying he wants you to end up on welfare and live in the ghetto while he spreads his seeds. What is up with this generation?
2007-01-02 16:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple
They know you will fall for that line. Women have done it for centuries. Still, today, seemingly educated women, get duped.
On the other end of the scale, men get burned too, by women carrying other mens babies.
2007-01-02 16:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't you figure this one out? The guy wants sex. He's telling you this crap to get sex. He doesn't call very often because he can't get sex over the telephone. He's not in love with you, doesn't want to marry you, and definitely doesn't want kids. He wants sex.
Sorry to bust your ballon, but that's all it's about, girlfriend: sex.
2007-01-02 16:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not committed. He says what he thinks you want to hear when you're together. He likes you being apart, look for a real relationship, this ain't it!!
2007-01-02 16:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by DWM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't state in your query, but, are you sleeping with this guy? Do you perchance have the words "Use Me" etched onto your forhead? Wake up girl, and while you are at it, go get yourself a STD test.
2007-01-02 16:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by DeCaying_Roses 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph in simplistic terminology he is a liar but belated happy new year
2007-01-02 16:20:40 · answer #11 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋