Alright, me and this girl have been together for a few years. I am 16 at this point. we met in 5th grade were best friends into 7th grade. I have been with pretty much only her since than a few breaks up and we would be with someone else for a week or 2. Anyway. its been about a year since it was at its worse. she cheated on me. Than she tried to lie about it but the facts came out. Now. (keep in mind i wasnt the best boyfriend I was pretty protective of her. she ended up seeing a movie with him than we broke up for like 5 weeks with me barley talking to her. I hooked up with another girl. Who i was very into. Than a few weeks later my X did everything she could. Stayed home on weekends/called me/ always answered her phone. its been almost that good since she cheated. she sais shes changed it took her that mistake to see she loved me ect. latley ive been feeling weird about her again. But shes usually always with me.Do you think It was just a mistake. Do i want to keep her around.
2007-01-02 08:17:02 · 9 answers · asked by marky mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of her she is a tease.
2007-01-02 08:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son! Is this you?!
Just kidding. This hits very close to home for me because my 15 (almost 16) year old son is going thru this very situation. I'll share with you what I told him. Take from it what you will *smile*
There are 2 major things to a healthy relationship. Communication and trust. Once you lose either (or both) of these things, your foundation becomes very shakey and can tumble down over the smallest thing.
My suggestion is to stop repeating this farce of a relationship with this girl and move on. You are 16 years old and you have many years to date *smile* Be this girl's friend and nothing more for your own sense of mind.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-02 16:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by _Savage_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are way to young to be going steady for years. You need to be dating others so you will know that you are matched with the best possible person. Your school years give you that opportunity. You have plenty of time to go steady or be engage in your 20's. Now is the time to look around at all your options and have fun.
2007-01-02 16:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've mentioned here.... I think you'd be fine to keep her around until she shows you that she's better off with someone else - meaning she go out with another guy and you find out. Cut your losses then. Everyone deserves the opportunity to have a second chance.
2007-01-02 16:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u could get back with her and try not to be so protective and it seem as if u want people to say it cool to go out with her again by saying what u did wrong in this question or u could be really truthful but yeah i guess u could go out with her again and maybe she has change if she didn't it okay too because u could get some body else
2007-01-02 16:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16, live a little. Why would you want to be in a commited relationship at such a young age?
2007-01-02 16:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to grow up and date and see other people. life is full of intriguing people . spend some time apart and if you are meant to be it will happen. The world is your oyster
2007-01-02 16:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you should be involved in positive extracurricular activities, before you end up with some bay bay's mommas.
2007-01-02 16:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-02 16:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋