We're on the rocks at the minute, he's not calling me when he says he would, etc, and I texted him saying "If its not gonna work between us, then you know I would prefer you to tell me". I haven't yet received a reply, it appears he's playing games, however, I'm goin to see him next weekend. How should I act around him? and should I give him the sex he'll remember me by?
2007-01-02 08:01:58 · 28 answers · asked by Talitha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is when I'm at his place, he treats me like a princess, and I start to really like him, he always says he wants more when I'm with him, but when we're apart he changes
2007-01-02 08:12:31 · update #1
wait until you see him and see how he is with you if he doesnt treat you will tell him its over.
2007-01-02 08:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever you do, do not do it with him. What if you have a kid? And if the relationship is already on the rocks thats the last thing that you would want. My advice is to lose him, and find someone that you trust and that you won't have to "reignite" anything if you are far away. The moment a guy sees his girl after a long time he should already be ignited! Find the right guy!
2007-01-02 08:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him. You should never use sex as a way to save a relationship. See how he acts around you. Just be yourself. That's the girl he originally fell for, right? So don't stress about it. If he really likes you, then just seeing you in person will be enough to rekindle your relationship. If he acts odd when you sees you and then continues to flake, dump him. Long distance is hard, good luck.
2007-01-02 08:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why bother making the trip to see him because it is obvious he has no interest in you. You will end up making a fool out of yourself and the thing is you want to have sex with him and he will do it, you can't blame him for that, he told you it was not going to work. You sound a bit like a stalker and desperate
2007-01-02 08:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him! Then he'll never take you seriously. Just see how things go when you see him and take baby steps since it sounds like he's wishy washy. Give him something to look forward to the next time he sees you and if he starts acting shady again just discontinue contact. That is just him showing his immaturity, and trust, you don't want an immature man!
2007-01-02 08:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a long distance relationship too. It isn't easy. If he has been distant with you then maybe you should let him know that you don't want to make a wasted journey next weekend. You need to know ahead of time if he no longer wants to pursue this.
2007-01-02 08:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you talk to him before you make any decisions. he may have a lot going on at work or at school and not have a lot of time. sometimes people get all caught up in everyday stuff that time slips away before you know it. i am sorry to say i am one of those people. i work 12 shifts i am a full time mom of 3 kids. a 17, 2 1/2, 5 month old. so who am i, someone who needs more time in a day and more days in a week. so hear his side of what is going on first. then decide either way good luck.
2007-01-02 08:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by instig8tor682000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Talitha. Well don't press a man to hard or that is the best way to push him back. In reference to you wanting to hear from him about the txt you sent him. If he feels pressured, he'll be sure to walk away. So try to relax, don't' expect anything and go with the flow when you are there with him. You can't hurry love, you can't buy love, and you can't force someone to love you back. He either does or he doesn't.
You should be with someone that wants to be with you.
You deserve that.
2007-01-02 08:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by sno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel your meeting with him this weekend... at the last minute. Tell him something came up, without giving any explanation. Tell him to call you the next day, and MAYBE you might be able to get together with him.
If he calls you, ask HIM to travel to YOUR location.
If he doesn't call you, or if he isn't willing to travel to YOU, forget about him. He is playing with you, and is probably banging other girls.
2007-01-02 08:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jack C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, realize that if you give him the sex he'll "remember you by" that you may end up contracting whatever disease he just caught from the reason he's not texting you back.
Don't waste your time. Respect yourself, cut the ties, move on and find someone who will treat you right. You deserve better than that.
2007-01-02 08:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by writerchick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't try too hard. It seems like he's trying to tell you he'd rather move on and probably with someone closer geographically. Men really like to have someone they can hold onto in the flesh.
2007-01-02 08:04:44 · answer #11 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋