2007-01-02 07:40:08 · 41 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make it clear that you aren't ready for that. Just straight out tell him.
2007-01-02 07:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe He Is Not Sweet Rather Just Acting That Way To Get In Your Pants...If Your Not Ready Tell Him If He Can't Understand That Then Just Tell Him To Kick Rocks As He Wasn't Really Worth It After All..
2007-01-02 07:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several things I don't know that would affect the way I answer.
How old are you? Have the two of you already had sex? If you're under 18 and the two of you haven't slept together yet, you need to have a conversation with him telling him where your boundaries are as far as sex goes. If you're over 18 and the two of you have already slept together, and you don't mind sleeping with him but his demands are more than you feel you can rise to, I would tell him that he needs to give you some space and spend time with you or be affectionate with you without trying to have sex with you. Tell him that just for a little while, he needs to let YOU initiate sex, and if you don't, that means you aren't up for it at that time.
If he can't do this, or something like it, he may be sweet, but he's not very respectful and doesn't have much self-control, and that's something to think about.
2007-01-02 07:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THIS BOY CLAIMS HE LIKES YOU THEN HE'LL WAIT.
BUT IF HE COME'S OUT WITH I THOUGHT YOU'D LOVE
ME, THEN HE'S SAYING THAT TO MAKE YOU FEEL QUILTY.DON'T FALL FOR THAT. IF HE REALLY CARE'S
THEN HE'LL WAIT UNTIL BOTH OF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH.
ALL HE WANTS TO DO IS BRAG ABOUT HOW YOU DID IT.
YOU WILL BE THE TALK OF THE TOWN. ALL THOSE BOYS
THAT ARE TALKING ABOUT FOR YOU TO DO IT WITH HIM
IS BEAUSE THEY ARE THE TYPE THAT WILL RAPE A GIRL,
WILL TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, LEAVE YOUR A** AFTER
YOU SAY I'M NOT READY, TELL A LIE TO EVERYONE AND
SAY HOW YOU LIKED HIS PENIS, JUST TO MAKE HIM LOOK
GOOD, BUT IN REALLITY THEY ARE ALL LOSER. KEEP YOUR PANTS ON UNTIL YOUR GOOD AND READY. I'M A FEMALE WHOM KNOW'S AND NOT JUST A FEMALE THAT
KNOW I'M A MOTHER OF TWO GIRLS AND A SON. I WOULD
KICK SOMEONE A** IF SOMEONE WOULD TELL MY YOUNGEST SOMETHING LIKE THAT. OR MY FAMILY WILL
HAVE HER BACK AS WELL. (HER BROTHER AND SISTER)
2007-01-02 08:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If is sooo sweet bacause you have not read him the rights ---- which start with him not ever getting in your pants ---- spell it out to him --- once he see's he is not going to get anywhere --- Mr. Sweet guy will change ----
2007-01-02 07:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by brainfreeze007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you aren't ready. If he can't respect that then I am not sure he is really that sweet, but is just acting that way to get into your pants.
2007-01-02 07:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by April 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he keep pressuring you, it's ok to walk away from him. You have plenty of time for your companion to come along and when you know you are ready (hopefully after your married) you will "KNOW". No need to do something you are not confortable doing. If he can't understand that, LET HIM WALK.
2007-01-02 07:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like George Carlin said, "we spent 9 months in the womb and the rest of our lives trying to get right back in!"
um, just tell him you're not that kind of girl
2007-01-02 07:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men always want what they can't have. They're hunters. They're Men. Keep saying no, just don't expect him to give up, he won't. He's a conqueror. The feeling is just to great when he wins.
2007-01-02 07:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by tyme2wakeup 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a normal guy, just quit being alone with him and maybe you could start a project or something together. Try volunteering or something to get his mind of his weiner.
2007-01-02 07:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by moveplease 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him or lwet him know ur bout to hes only doin it for the fact of bragging to his friends i know i was in his shoes before u need some who respects u try someone older thats mature
2007-01-02 07:47:14 · answer #11 · answered by wil w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋