I shockingly met up with a girl I knew and liked a few years ago when i was in high school at a party on new years eve. Way back in the day we went to high school together and we really hit it off. I met her mother and we went to lunch once. I have always regretted that I never confronted her about us getting together.
Last I spoke with her, 2 years ago, she had a boyfriend and such so I didn't really continue talking with her. I left for another school and almost completely forgot about her after I left.
So new years night, I walk into a party and see her and we instantly recognized and begin talking. Turns out she doesn't have a boyfriend anymore and asked me about my current status (available). By the end of the night I got her telephone number.
Its been a while since i got into all of this dating stuff. I work full time and stopped dating a while ago. When should i call and how long should i wait to hint i want to do what Ive always regret i didn't do.
2007-01-02 07:40:07 · 7 answers · asked by crymsyneyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i just called on my break at work. She did not answer. Within a minute after i got a text from "Hey sorry I cant talk at the moment im checking into the hilton in sanfran. about to eat ttyl"
So i guess i just chill for a day. thanks for the help i wish i could award more then one best answer. you all gave good advice.
2007-01-02 09:35:34 · update #1
call her in the middle of the week and say "it was really great seeing you again, you look great..." and the end ask her to meet you for drinks or dinner....let it flow, don't push the subject of 'wish I would have" just show her how you feel now....she'll get it.
2007-01-02 07:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by jessie1985 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to resolve what you meant by "What I've always regret I didn't do." If you meant building a meaningful relationship, then you have already laid allot of the important groundwork; meeting her mom, spending time with her, and I assume you converse well together. Plus she did give you her number. This definitely sounds worth a try. If you're worried you won't have time around your work schedule, then you just need to make some priority decisions. If you are simply looking for a sexual release of stress from work however, you have some conflicts to resolve before you engage with a girl in which you have so much interest.
2007-01-02 15:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.Stoic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now would be a good time to call.
Make it casual, go to lunch, then if you are a little nervous, you have a set amount of time and you don't have to worry about 'after'.
If you have a good time, make plans to meet again while you're still at lunch. There is nothing more annoying about a guy who says he'll call an never does after a date. If you're interested let us know by making plans to see us again.
Good luck!!
2007-01-02 15:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by kbraun21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should call her and let her know you were thinking of her, and just see where it leads... just be honest about what you want. Bring up the good times that you two had together in school. do something simple at first, like a drink or movie. Maybe, even have some friends over for a bbq and invite her. Good Luck.... :)
2007-01-02 15:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by hardcore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and go to breakfast or lunch together on a date.
Wink and flirt to get her attention more.
P.S. Cool nickname. I still have Guilt Gear X for Game Boy Advance.
2007-01-02 15:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Durnalicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a loser and by the way nice screen name
2007-01-02 18:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what are you waiting for???....time waits for no one!!!!
2007-01-02 15:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by KT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋