Hi folks,I have foundout that my girlfriend is still open to being hooked up( or setup) by her close friends.she also mentioned to her friend that shes so tired of it(our relationship).So im sure that im not the one & she's kinda leading me on and having second thoughts.Is better to end it than to wait anymore & see what her reasons are gonna b.I dont kno if i should confont her with what i know or just stop any kind of contacts and just walk away.Shes going to take her exams in a months time ,should i wait till shes done with it or just clear it up right away and end it.Ours is a long distance relationship and i dont think i will meet her til mar/apr'07.
2007-01-02 07:23:51 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should deal with it now. If she is looking for other men then she is not being considerate of you so why should you be considerate of her exams. I would just approach her calm and tell her that you have heard that this is going on and you wanted to hear the truth from her. Also mention that you want her to tell you the truth so you can move on. If she says that it is not true, then believe her and tell her that you want to know where your relationship is headed. Long distance is hard enough so there needs to be trust. You need to make her feel comfortable to tell you the truth no matter what it is and you will appreciate her honesty. If she is open to new relationships then so should you and stop seeing her and look for someone else. I know it hurts, but that is life so to make life a little more tolerable you need to deal with problems head on. Good luck
2007-01-02 07:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here it is: Why are you still trying to be nice and look out for her (i.e. waiting till after the exams). She obviously isnt worried about her exams or YOU for that matter if she is asking her friends to hook her up with other people. I say call her out on it. let her say her peace or give you reasons.... maybe it will be something fixable, but don't keep looking out for her. And I have a feeling you are gonna have to walk away from this one buddy.
2007-01-02 15:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to confront her for your own peace of mind. If she is doing and sayin these things, it is not fair for you to put your life on hold until spring. If she is doing the things you say, then she is not ready for a serious relationship and you need to move on. Besides you deserve better. Good luck
2007-01-02 15:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its best to tell her know. if u know somethin then tell her. well tell her after her tests. she doesnt need more pressure. wait its a long distance relationship?!?!?! im sorry to tell u this but they dont work. i was goin out with a guy in sc for a yr. my friend had to tell me he was cheatin on me. well if she is still open then she doesnt feel the same for u. its hurts to know the truth, but its better to know the truth then to know a lie.
2007-01-02 15:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Beaner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's going out with other guys? Are her friends telling you this?
If she's already left your relationship emotionally and mentally, and allegedly physically, why are you still hanging around?
Accept it for what it is and go do your own thing.
2007-01-02 15:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is over there is no need to drag things out. Talk to her, be honest with what you have heard and how you feel.
2007-01-02 15:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Starwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want your heart broke bud you better get rid of her now.....Sorry not what you want to hear but it's true believe me!
2007-01-02 15:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just keeping her options open...u need to talk to here & tell her that u know & don't like it...if she continues then leave her...good luck...
2007-01-02 15:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still looking because for her, you aren't it. Move on.
2007-01-02 15:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by sundeevah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away
2007-01-02 15:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋