me and my ex have been through kinda a lot. we met like a year and a half ago. we went out for a couple months and then his ex was telling me that he was with someone else and then his friend was saying the same thing and also he had been on IM talking to me and he said he was going out with someone else....but it was a joke. a couple days later i broke up with him but l8r that night he called and asked me back out. so we went back out but then a lil over a month later we broke up again. about about 3 months l8r we went back out again and 2 weeks l8r he broke up with me and i had found out that it was all a bet. he got money for going out with someone out of state for a couple weeks.then about 2 months l8r he told me he had made a huge mistake and he still loves me and misses me and he had torn his room up b/c he was mad that he hurt someone he loved so much.so we went out again. after about a month he stopped talking 2 me and we never realli broke up.we havent talked for 4 months...
2007-01-02 07:15:51 · 20 answers · asked by preety_n_pink2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
until about 2 weeks ago. we talked for lyke 3 days and he didnt talk to me after that....i messaged him and now we are talking agagin. i still love him a lot even tho we've been thro those things. he has a gf and i know that they love each other. he tells me that he misses me a lot. he lives in indiana and i live in ohio we only live lyke 2 hours away from each other. idk what to do to get him back. he told me a couple months ago that thinks we shouldnt go out b/c we can't see each other. but he can drive and i realli wanna work at it with him. what should i do?
2007-01-02 07:20:22 · update #1
he had called me the saturday b4 christmas and on christmas eve and then on christmas but i was nervous to answer. so i didnt get to talk to him.
2007-01-02 07:22:29 · update #2
just try and talk to him and maybe everything will work out
2007-01-02 07:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Christy Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I'm dealing with something similar. It's normal for you to still love him. I still love my ex. He would call me and tell me how foolish he was for letting me go and everything. I would get all teary eyed and get myself in the same mess again. It has caused me nothing but misery. I'm still dealing with the upset from it all. Sometimes, I just think I would simply be forgotten and I would break down thinking about it all. You know how much agony it has put you through. You don't want that all over again. He seems like deep down he probably does care, but he is easily influenced. My ex was like that, which makes things very hard. You just need to move on, eventhough it may even feel impossible. It's so upsetting sometimes, but it keeps happening. That should be a sign that it won't work out. You never know, maybe in a year or a few you will see him again and things will work out well. You'll get through this, you just can't deal with this again right now. It's very upsetting, but you aren't alone. I know how it is.
2007-01-02 15:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you need to pay womeone a little visit. i think you should call him or go and see whats going on if he is with someone else, as hard as it is just drop him and find someone elsei am kind in the same situation only i am in the part were we didnt talk for a while but not we are talkng and this are going great just give it time but dont let him forget about you. stay fresh in his mind it should work if he really likes you
good luck
2007-01-02 15:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by sman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this relationship was never serious. I know it hurts now but it will get better. You do not deserve to be treated like a yo-yo or to have your feelings put on the line for a bet. Time heals all wounds. (or at least it makes them hurt less) Please for your own good. Stay away from him. He doesn't deserve your love.
2007-01-02 15:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is drop this dude like a used condom.
Here's the guaranteed way to get over him: Delete him from your cell phone, erase his name from your contact lists, tear up all of his pictures, throw away anything he gave you, and then.....find someone else :)
Thats the best way to forget and get over someone who's no good for you. It's not easy but it works if you stick with it.
2007-01-02 15:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by WhoDat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like this guy can't be trusted but i know how it is but if you haven't talked for 4 months then mabey you should move on because in my mind not talking for 4 months meens that he dosen't care but always keep in mind that guys are shy mabey he needs a little push and it will all work out
2007-01-02 15:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by meacai10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r still in love with him well talk to him about how u feel and ask him why he is doing these things to u. girl u don't have to suffer or hang on to this guy, he doesn't love u the way u do. u should just give up, forget about his existence.
2007-01-02 15:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i wouldnt talk to him...even tho he said that he still loves u and even tho u mite love him too if he isnt talkin to u then he doesnt really care about u like he told u just break up with him ...my opinion
2007-01-02 15:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him!! The best way to do that is start dating others. this guy is very controlling and mutipulative, and he's not going to change that.
2007-01-02 15:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this si rong i don't know y guys (not me) go and cheat on girls for sum 1 eles y go out if ur not staying with them but i think u should talk to this dude and see.....get to the bottem of it
2007-01-02 15:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋