He can do anything you want him to.well his sister in in my cheersquad and she likes me.But there is a problem first, Im 14 and hes 16 and I am really afraid to kiss or anything else(im afraid of what he well think)and he has a girlfriend that is not right for him(he loves sports she hates them, but that is just the start)I guess if hes happy with her Im happy for him.I just want the best for him.but I told his sister that I like him and ever since that(this all happend in one night we were at a lock in at a church and stayed up all night)but every since that he comes around me alot and kept looking at me.he also keeps like flirting with me or something Im not sure.I LOVE everything about him and seeing him everyday isnt helping me get over him and his girlfriend.he works at my house for some extra money(i love that he is such a hard worker).I dont know what to do! I have never felt that way about someone. my eyes immediatly draws to him. Hes not a player and he has a great personality
2007-01-02 07:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by emma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he has an awsome family
2007-01-02 07:05:33 · update #1
His sister told him that night that I liked him and thats when everything started.
2007-01-02 07:07:06 · update #2
You don't love him. You have a little school girl crush on someone you've never even dated.
However, you need to learn an important lesson here. Stay away from boys who have girlfriends. They are OFF LIMITS to you.
2007-01-02 07:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advise to you would be to stay away from guys that have girl friends. I am a guy and if my sister told me some girl i thought was cute liked me.. id be all over here too. The thing with young guys are that they dont have a real sense on conviction when it comes to girls hearts. Whether its yours or hers.. someone is probably going to get hurt as long as he has a GF and you continue to flirt with him. My advise to you would be to ease off and act like you arent bothered by him.. if your tongue drops and your eyes bug out everytime you see or think of him.. he may get the impression that if he leads you on.. he might get something from you. its sad to say but this is the world we live in today. Everyone is looking for the next bet thing while trying to hold on to what they still have... the more the better.. so they think. Save youself some anguish and just take a step back and see if he still acts the same way once he sees you have calmed down for him. LOVE is a strong word.. and a painful one too if you are blinded by what you think is love. LUSt is almost the same thing except you only find out it was lust AFTER you THOUGHT it was LOVE. Best of luck to you and happy New Year!!
2007-01-02 15:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Get Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets start with the girlfriend issue. He already has one. until he decides otherwise your beat.
Second, if he's flirting with you JUST BECAUSE he knows you like him.. then he is a player. What do you think he will do to you later when given a chance?
It is not for you to question whether they are right for each other. it is not your relationship. How would you feel if someone told you not to be friend with someone because they like baseball and you don't. Same rule applies.
I think you are confusing attention with affection. I understand that talking to him and being around him brings you happiness. But I think that you should wait. True love grows over time. Attraction disappears as soon as there is something else to be attracted to.
Get to know him but respect his boundaries... and hers.... She is the one attached to him not you. Everything else will end in a power struggle.
2007-01-02 15:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Eric E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that he has a girlfriend means he's off limits. This shouldn't be a problem until they break up. If they do break up, then you have to choices: you can pursue him, since you like him so much or you can give up. Good luck, and by the way - no one can tell that you have never kissed before. When you kiss someone new you have to start from scratch anyway!
2007-01-02 15:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always going to be that one boy you wish you could be with, even after knowing you can't. --- I would just wait it out... if he likes you, he will break up with her, and pursue a relationship with you... but for now, he is off limits. Think of how you would feel if you were his girlfriend in this situation.
2007-01-02 15:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by spoiled_lovell_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy knows a girl likes them they will mess with your head, cuz they like the attention...just like when a girl knows a guy likes her that she doesnt like....they are easy to use. He has a girlfriend, don't talk to him. Find a guy who wants you! you wont have to look for him, because he will be kissing the ground you walk on! BOOYAA!!!
2007-01-02 15:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he already knows that you like him, so let it be. keep acting like yourself and play hard to get to see if he shows any interest in you. then you will know if he has any feelings for you. if not move on.
2007-01-02 15:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mary B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that sux.
maybe u should kinda tell him...OR u can forget him OR be friends with his girlfriend =)
that was bad advise but anyways LOL=) I hope that it helped
2007-01-02 15:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know you like him? If not you should tell him how you feel.
2007-01-02 15:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by green_clash_ramones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋