I'm in love with this guy who has come home from the Navy(Tech Schoo) for the holiday. I told him how I feel about him and he knows just about all of my feelings for him now. I ask him how he feels about me and he said " No particular way" what does that mean? We had a thang going on--a couple of days after he returned. He returned on the 23th of Dec. and I saw him 26th of Dec. He really isnt telling me how he feels about me. I know he told me he isnt ready to get in a relationship right now because he is busy. I mean we talked a little afer he returned but after that I havent talked to him in 6 days. Every time I would called he would ignore my call and wouldnt call me back. I cant seem to get him to talk to me. I really dont like when he ignore me when he knows im in love with him. Why cant he tell me he dont wanna talk to me anymore. Its very hard for me to get over him. Most say that I am crazy having love for him when he dont even love or probably dont have feelings for me. HELP
2007-01-02 06:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Attitude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am kind of going through the same thing right now. Honestly I think the reason these guys dont say how they are feeling either way is because they want us around when THEY want us. If you keep calling and he doesnt call back or pick up STOP calling! I know its easier said then done (believe me I am giving myself the same advice) but I would say he knows how you feel about him so there is no mystery. He knows you are calling to hangout or hook up so why would he pick up unless he is in the "mood" if you know what I mean. As hard as it is I would try and move on with what respect you have left. I say this because I didn't take the hint and move on and now he has such little respect for me because I keep beating a dead horse if you will. Just try your hardest to get over him. Stay busy, hangout with friends and even find another guy. If he was into you he would pick up your calls and he would def tell you how he felt.
Good Luck! Happy New Year
2007-01-02 07:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sam s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you have your answer. He doesnt talk to you and he doesnt return your calls. He seems to have no interest in having a relationship right now. He told you he had no particular feelings toward you. Its time to move on with your life.
2007-01-02 07:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes probably a little freaked out about u telling him u love him. he just doesnt know what to do. i dunno if you've heard about navy guys. but they tend to sleep around A LOT. so i would be careful if i were u. but if he really liked u he would definitely pick up your call. i hate it when ppl say they are too busy to call because no one is THAT busy. it just takes a few seconds to say hello. and if he cant take a few seconds out of his day to say hi to u then hes not worth it. plus why love someone who does not love u back. find someone better who will love u just as much as u love him!
2007-01-02 07:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by hey there :) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt have to tell you anything..he is SHOWING you that he is not interested in you and you are pushing and pushing and can't or wont take the hint. Leave him be and move on. YOu can not make him talk to you and you can not make him love you. Move on.
2007-01-02 07:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't into you as much as you are into him, okay?? Let him go, and move on. I kno your crazy in luv with him, but when he doesn't call you back, and when he just straight UP ignores you, that means he isn't into you.
2007-01-02 07:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hinata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should leave him alone for a while he has no chance to call you b/c your always alling him. seriousl if i wa shim i would be annoyed with you. dont fall in love with someoe who hasnt fallen for you.
2007-01-02 07:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. No guy's worth your time if he keeps ignoring you.
2007-01-02 07:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by DminiknBonita 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well most men who dont talk probably dont care or dont want to "go there."
find someone else.
2007-01-02 07:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just hang around him alot and act like friends, and THINK before you say somethin
2007-01-02 07:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by mogi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋