We broke up a couple months ago, and hes had girlfriends and sex with other people. But lately, we've been having feelings for each other again, and I wouldn't mind getting back together with him. The thing is, is it going to be like a "fresh start over" kind of relationship or is going to pick up where we left off? Also, because he's had sex with other people, should I wait to have sex with him again like we did in the beginning of our relationship? Its so confusing. and I need help
2007-01-02 06:58:26 · 23 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if this guy trully loves you, he should wait for a while until you recover. he should be more understanding to you because you are the one who is much affected because of the things he has done. To have sex with him is I think not a good idea, the relationship would just become lustfull if you allow him to touch you again. Give him some more time to change up and be a man for you. if he trully loves you he will wait for that time for you to accept him again. Do not rush up your self even though you love him. you might end up hurting your self again. God bless you
2007-01-02 07:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember all the reasons why you and him broke up. are they finished with or will they still be an issue? could you break up again over the same thing as the first time?
i dont think getting back together with an EX is a good idea, sometimes i think we dont miss the Ex we just miss the feeling of having a relationship and someone who cares about us.
there are plenty of people out there who we can make new relationships with, if you have been there and done that, nothing much is going to be different the 2nd time, so why try again with the same person?
2007-01-02 15:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by *THUMB * 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are comfortable with him, and it would be easy to attempt a reconcillation at this point. However, he has shown you that he is not interested in an exclusive relationship with you. He has been intimate with other girls, so there's no going back to the way things were. Move on. Remember why the two of you seperated in the first place. Those same issues will still be there. You don't want him to return to you b/c things didn't work out with the other girls he choose. He wouldn't have been with the other girls if he had not wanted to be.
2007-01-02 15:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would expect to pick-up where you left off. You would be better off to make him wait. It's a tough and confusing thing to do, getting back together with someone. You might try to remember why he is your ex in the first place before moving forward.
2007-01-02 15:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remember why you broke up. And if he has been having relationships with other woman he might not be that up to getting back to a serious relationship. You could be setting yourself up for a lot of hurt. Be careful and remember if you are confused about it don't do it. Only do it if you are sure that is what you want.
2007-01-02 15:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up in the first place. If there was cheating, then "no", go find someone new. If you get back together, definitely wait to have sex; In fact, I would ask him to be tested first.
2007-01-02 15:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you forget about the other girls? Or will it continue to bother you? Will your relationship be exclusive now? Have you resloved the issues that caused the intitial breakup? These are questions you need to answer first before seeing him again. Does he just want to have sex with you again or does he want a full relationship?
2007-01-02 15:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Always Cuious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason keep it that way!! Sounds like he has already gone on with his life, why would you go back to it?? If you have sex with him, make sure it's protected sex, god only knows who he's been with and who those people have been with, last thing you need is an STD or even AIDS.
2007-01-02 15:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by marisanj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on why you broke up!
If you broke up, something went wrong and thats prolly not the best place to start a relationship up at.
But if you start over you've waisted time.....
So i guess i cant give you any more advice untill i know why you two broke up in the first place... but hey i just earned two point... yeah mee!! =)
2007-01-02 15:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,you should not. If he has had unprotected sex,you take a big risk of contacting any number of STD's.The worst of which is aids. Evaluate your past relationship with this person.If you have any doubt if it will be better this time.It probably won't be. Move on.
2007-01-02 15:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by arose4juliano@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋