No one really knows and the dead aren't telling the living. I believe that the dead look back in on us from time to time. Some people who are mediums think(they aren't sure, but they have some similar ideas) that people leave this realm for another place. Where that is they don't know. They have asked if there is a heaven and have never been given a yes or no answer so they don't know for certain. Where ever these spirits go, the do/can come back from time to time. Sometimes these people are held here by grieving friends, lovers or relatives. You have to let them go. They tend to return on anniversaries, birthdays, holidays, etc. Supposedly, what ever that person was in life, so will they be in death. IF they liked to party, then they will tend to gravitate to those places where they cavorted in life. IF you tend to have feelings about them around thanksgiving, it may be because they are looking in on you at that time just like they did in life. A common theme that I have seen is that upon your death bed, you will most likely see your relatives(mother, father, siblings, significant other) and they will guide you to this new realm. This is not to say that there is not God or heaven....again, no one has said there isn't, just that no one has said there is either. Most agree though that you are on the same journey and you have been left behind only temporarily. Don't rush things. They are preparing for your arrival, but it must happen in its own time. Your dreams are your way to talk to them. There are organizations of mediums who will try to reach your relatives and find out what is going on. They don't take money unless you have them travel a long way. Some of them can do things over the phone. They don't have shops as they have regular jobs, they just have a sense that most people aren't aware of.
2007-01-02 07:19:48
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answered by Neptune 4
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Hi, I lost my Mom about 12 yrs ago. It all in what you believe. My Mom did visit me a few times and I do believe that our loved ones are always still with us. You probably were very close to your Mom and thats why its so hard, but shes still there, just not in the physical sense. I find it helps to talk to others about my Mom, this way its a little easier.
2007-01-02 15:24:33
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answered by mcnallys lost child 1
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In october of 2005 i lost my dad to a severe heart attack. since then, i feel like my life is not nearly as worth it. He was always there for me whenever i needed him and i could always rely on him to support me no matter what. In 2004 i lost my uncle to cancer and in 1997 i lost another uncle to cancer as well. My family is a strong believer in God and also believe that all the dead live on no matter what anyone may say. As a matter of fact, we believe that that the people we have loved and lost, come back to visit us often. My grandparents who i never met because they passed away years ago, are often said to come back and flicker the lights whenever our entire family is brought together. My dad was always "mr fix-it" as we called him and this year as we were setting up our christmas tree we took out our traditional stand that used to rotate and play music. now a few years ago the stand broke and didnt rotate or play the music anymore, and this year we took the stand out and it worked! if you really look hard enough you will notice that your loved one is always there doing the little things that will remind you of them. just look hard enough and believe about it and you will notice that they always come back to you. BELIEVE IN THEIR SPIRIT good luck and get better
2007-01-02 17:18:54
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answered by maureen 2
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people believe many different things all over the planet.
Some cultures believe in heaven only. others believe in rebirth, in many forms.
reincarnation is popular with many people having past life memories. I believe its a combination of all of the above, the soul is flexible, i'm sure you've been told your life has to go on. You ask for people with after life experiences , what does that mean to you, i have pastlife memories, but have yet to have a near death experience, in this life. i would recommend mediation. it will help relax you, mediation lowers stress and bloodpressure.
2007-01-02 15:22:49
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answered by steven m 7
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I think she's where she thought she would be. And I believe she's happy, contented, and keeps an eye on you. She'll always be around you, you know that. You also know shes in a better place and she helps you and guides you. Probaly more now then ever.
2007-01-02 15:41:21
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answered by tyme2wakeup 1
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