I've been going out with my new boyfriend for a month and I caught him...?

Question

... sniffing my chair a week ago. I asked him what he was doing but he said he was looking for something. I was a bit disturbed but I decided to let it slide. Why would he do this? Then last night while we were getting jiggy he asked me if I would mind if he pooed on my chest as it really turned him on. He said that if I cared for him I would let him do it! I was disgusted so I just got my stuff and went home, I haven't spoken to him since. Do you think this was wrong of me to react this way?

Answer 1

well sniffin seats is ok but next time u see him ask him if it`s ok if u poo on him instead but make sure u eat a bucket load of brussel sprouts, cabbage, beans, curry and wash it all down wiv a whole bottle of lactulose solution. that should give u plenty of coverage! oh and don`t forget to eat a packet of peanuts too to give it the shotgun effect lol

Answer 2

Pooing's a bit weird even in the most enlightened of relationships so after a month I think he's probably pushed the boundaries too far too soon!

Some people are turned on by such things but most find it a bit repellent because the act is associated with the natural removal of waste from the body.

I think you were right to leave and should now break off the relationship if you haven't already

Answer 3

Thank your lucky star that you found out early just how rotten a pervert he is . I am sure your parents raised a decent young lady with morals and civilized behavior . Never weaken and go back to that disgusting person. When he sniffed your chair I think you already had a light go on in your brain to warn you of something bad coming up . If he stalks you call the police .

Answer 4

Sweets i am as open as the next person which probably does not mean much. but the whole picture of the sniffing is out of line. Block the number, and time to reshuffle the places you hang to avoid seeing him. Sniffing a chair? count the panties, he stole some.

Answer 5

it wasnt wrong hun especially since he tried to make u feel guilty saying if u loved him-wat a jerk and a weirdo-u can do better hun,find some1 who wont emotionally blackmail u, and treat u with the respect and love u deserve and isnt a nutter in the bedroom-sex should be fun,easy going and loving the same as a boyfriend! dont look back hun ur well off without him.take care x

Answer 6

I don't think you are wrong. My fiance has a bad habit of always wanting to smell and lick my @ss. At first he'd just do it when we were having sex, but sometimes when we are just watching tv or something he'll slip his fingers between my crack and then smell them. I think it's gross and told him to knock it off. I don't know what it is with men and the @ss, but if he ever asked me to $hit on him or let him do it to me, the engagment will definately be off. I'm all for kinky, but some things are just going beyond the beyonds.

Answer 7

This is actually a type of fetish(disgusting, I think). Psychologists have discussed it being the fascination of something being created by a human being. The need to watch something being 'reborn' or sort of like a rebirth. It's something he needs to see a psychologist about.

Answer 8

Some folks are into that stuff, and if you're not, then breaking off this relationship was the best thing for you.
I would have done the same thing by picking up my stuff and leaving.

Answer 9

The guys wierd

Yes we all like different things but this is toooooooooo extreme

I think that it's time to say goodbye and find someone else that would treat you a bit better

Good luck

Answer 10

I do not think that was the wrong way should have reacted because it is weird, why is he doing all of these weird things to you and if they turn him on he is a very very weird boyfriend to have. (this is no disrespect to you.)