met this girl back in June. She had a BF. (now..dec 19th 06' has been with him a year) she stated he cheated when they first started but she trusts him now and said he hasnt done it since. Anyway. We connected in a flash..the same interests weird attitudes, and warm hearts. We started seeing eachother alot..led to kissing dinners and eventually intimacy. all this time he was away in costa rica she was here. she said when she goes back to school with him that she has to see her feelings. We ended up falling in love and told eachother.She told me in september that the right thing to do is stay with him cause she loves him to. from sept till now we still talk alot and when she comes home we meet up and hang out. she still feels the same and so do i and we've kissed and and still very close. SHe decided if we're to remain close to not act on our impulses. Cuz we mean alot to eachother. she made a promise if anything happens one day. we'll be together.
2007-01-02 06:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by V P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be a fool. She knows she has both of you on the line. She needs to make a choice and if its not you, then you need to move on. Being friends will lead to "friends with benefits" as you have too many emotions tied up with her right now. The only way to get past that is to break it off. Do not wait for her in the "if things dont work out we will definitely get together". She is trying to hold onto you and the boyfriend at the same time. That is not fair to your or the bf so find yourself a nice woman who will love you and only you. Good luck!
2007-01-02 06:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's not ready or willing to let the other guy go. I don't think you should waste your time because she's not doing a good job of being a girlfriend.
1. She cheated on her current boyfriend
2. She's leading you on
She's getting all the perks and playing with your emotions. By her telling you that she's not going to leave the other guy was proof that she's not really trying to commit to you. She's enjoying what she's got going on. You were a fling and now it's over.
She's probably thinking... what's she got to lose? Not like you're gonna tell her man.
Sorry man
2007-01-02 15:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like lust and physical intimacy. Don't wait around for her to dump her BF, because she's not going to. She doesn't have the guts to. I dont think you want to be with a girl who doesn't stand up to her true feelings for you.
move on buddy!
2007-01-02 14:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by cuteami78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is so a player! get rid of that... oops....anyway get rid of her. she seems like she is looking for attention from u but still loves 'him'. or tell her its either me or him take ur pick now! and dont be discouraged if she says him
2007-01-02 14:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Brian's Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's enjoying the attention, but what happens when she gets caught by the one? won't she possibly have another on the side when she's supposedly all yours? I'd watch it.
2007-01-02 14:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing both you and the boyfriend.
2007-01-02 14:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. There is nothing but misery for you if you continue.
2007-01-02 15:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋