This guy that I like is two grades higher than me. He's friends with my sister, and I found out last year that he liked me. I was really exited 'cause I liked him, too. This year came, and nothing happened 'cause both of us are really shy. Well, he got a gf. We did communicate through my sister. Only a little, though. We didn't completely talk through her. Anyways, when he got his gf, he decided he was going to try to make me jealous- something I hate. He even told my sister that was what he was trying to do, and she told him it was a bad idea. He would bring her around when I was standing near my sister. He would flirt with her and make sure he was looking at me the whole time. Well, that made me mad because I hate when guys try to make me jealous. I'm not mad that he has a gf 'cause we weren't dating, so I have no right to be mad at him. And, I'm not. I'm just mad that he's trying to make me jealous with her. Anyways, then he told my sister he was tired of waiting on me to show my f
2007-01-02 06:50:03 · 30 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to show my feelings toward him. Like it was my fault we never went out. Should I be mad at him?
2007-01-02 06:50:37 · update #1
don't get mad just go along with his game and be happy, because if he gets the reaction he wants he'll keep on trying to make you mad so just wait until he stops trying to make you jealous and asks you out.
2007-01-02 07:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just a pusssy and can't seam to make the first move. If you like him get some guts and talk to him about it...if you don't really care either way, than let him be imature and talk to some other girl. Either way both of you talking to eachother through your sister is a little second grade don't you think?? Come on, hes just a person. Talk to him yourself. Tell him he's being an idiot trying to make you jealous, and that if he wants you he should just ask you out. Oh and whatever you do, don't sleep with him!
2007-01-02 14:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lek 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. it sounds to me like there are some games being played by the guy who wants to have it all. Believe me when i say that 94% of high school guys want to have more then one girl on thier "team". It is high school tho so it not suprising that he would think its your duty to put yourself out beause if he was the one that lied you his pride might . How do you know that if it was you with him.. he wouldnt bring you around a girl he likes and flirt with you while looking at her the whole time?? You should always beware of the signs someone gives off before you decide to get with that person. Thats why i never get with anyone who has cheated.. i never have cheated but if you get with a cheater or thief or whatever.. how can you be upset after they mess up doing the same thing they have done in the past.. thier defense would be the same as many have used.. "well you knew how I was before you got with me!" lol my advise to you would be to consentrate on school because life is full of ditractions.. get your education and your money!! hope this helps.
guys are a dime a dozen.. cept me, im EXPENSIVE!! =)
2007-01-02 15:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Get Money 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a jerk. How obnoxious for him to do that when he didn't even try to get together with you either. Perhaps next time he does this, you could just say right in front of his girlfriend that your sister told you he was tired of waiting for you to show your feelings and that he's just dating her to make you jealous.
2007-01-02 14:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be upset that he was doing that, which also says alot about his character. No guy, if they liked you as much as they said they did, would never try and make you jealous. But then again, it's wasted energy. I suggest you find some other dude because, he aint worth the time of day!!!
2007-01-02 14:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Hinata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is never your fault it is his fault. all this time he knows your feelings and yet he didn't make the first move since he likes you also. and he is the man he should do the first move not you. Being jealous is a natural reaction because you like the guy also but if it is only his alibi to make you show your feelings then this guy is a jerk. why not talk to you instead on doing such act. So thinking about him is useless. Let him do the first move.
2007-01-02 14:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell him how you feel, obviously thats what he wanted you to do after you saw him flirting with her in the first place. yes, you have a right to be mad, i would be mad too. and if you two end up going out, expect at least a little bit of problems because he is way older than you and will expect ceartain things to happen. but if you really want to be with him tell him exactly how you feel without sounding too easy
2007-01-02 14:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by Alysa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! I would be so mad! I would go up to him and call him at his own game...just let him know that it isn't working and all he is doing is making a fool of himself. Let him know that for being 2yrs older he is acting like he is only 2yrs old period!!! I would ignore him and his childish behavior and move on and then we will see who is jealous of who...
2007-01-02 14:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly that is a messy situation and he sounds like he is being immature. If your sister said bringing a girl around you is a bad idea and he decided to flaunt it anyways, then he isnt worth your time.
2007-01-02 14:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jene 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is to imature for you and he will obviously bring alot of drama w his relationship. Be thankful you didn't date or yours could be the back he is making googlie eyes behind at someother girl.
2007-01-02 14:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋