2007-01-02 06:46:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on what he thinks "you are mine" means. my man tells me that but he means that i am to be his girl forever. he isn't a contol freak or anything, he just loves the idea that i will be his girl forever. i like it when he tells me that...
2007-01-02 06:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. Why hasn't she talked to you in two months? When she told you this information, did she tell you with any bit of spite? You kind of have to look at it in the way it was presented. Also why does her boyfriend not like yours? It sounds like a lot of factors, but with something like this, you do have to look at all the reasons for this information. I would imagine if this is remotely true....there would be at least one other person besides your own boyfriend who can coroborate this. Has your boyfriend acted suspiciously? Have you seen any behavior yourself that might point to him cheating on you? I wouldn't outright accuse him without something. You may want to talk to him about what you heard. You could also just think about what you would want to do about it. If he did, do you want to break up? If you wouldn't, you might want to let it go for now unless you see something odd. If you just got to know, ask him. Personally, I would probably bring it up to him. Unless I was sure it was garbage and didn't want him and the other guy getting in a fight.
2016-03-16 08:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's overly possessive and thinks you're his property, it sounds like that would be a good thing. But since you're confused about it, maybe there are other issues surrounding the statement that you should consider.
2007-01-02 06:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it can actually be a good and a bad thing, it really depends on how your boyfriends says it , his tone of voice might tell you and so will his body language and his facial expressions. If he passes it off as a possessive thing then it is bad. Just so you know you own you and you date who you want and have the friends want and still have a boyfriend, just know your limits and what to do and what times are proper to do things.
2007-01-02 06:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....and don't be flattered one bit.
Will you go out with me exclusively is the mature question.
I think you better stick to:
do you like me? \
check yes or no....
and how old do we have to be before we stop asking,
'IS THAT A GOOD THING???"
I think we have somebody under age of common sense
using the computer without supervision again lol
2007-01-02 06:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i dont think its usually said as a statement of "i own you" by most men. I say "my girl" or "she's mine" and i dont mean it as i possess her, just that we are together and i love her and im not gonna let her go if i can prevent it. She has the freedom to decide what she wants to do and she chooses to stay with me, i dont own her at all. Its just a way of saying "they are mine and nobody better try to take them from me" kind of thing, its just an expression and most women like it when their man claims them like that.
2007-01-02 06:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by JMan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! That's a possessive personality lurking about. And, the fact that you even asked us that question, tells me you know something about that phrase is disturbing. Start asking questions about his ex(es), if he starts saying they were clingy, possessive and crazy...you know it's probably himself that he's really talking about. Ring the alarm, you got a nut job!
2007-01-02 06:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by sundeevah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on how he says it
if its like "I'm gonna F*cking kill you" a like a triple H kinda thing then no
but if he says it with hearts in his eyes and bunnies dancing around his head nah he just wants to be around you
2007-01-02 06:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Primetime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying "your boyfriend" already implies he belongs to you. Him saying "you are mine" is just the same but the other way around. To some extent each person in a couple belongs to the other
2007-01-02 06:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a good thing. he might be saying it just to be sweet and show how much he loves you, but it could also be bad. he might be giving you a hint that he is possessive. you should watch him closely and if he is being possessive tell him to get lost. no one should belong to someone unless they are married.
2007-01-02 06:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by smithluver_1317 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋