i love him alot but he has the same feelings 4 another girl should i move on or wait a while?
2007-01-02 06:45:48 · 22 answers · asked by likewhoaitsashleymarie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is in your question hunny- He has the same feelings for u as he does for his gf!!!! Well he obviously dont love his gf if he is telling u that- so he obs dont love you!! That is not meant to sound harsh but he is a loser who has no respect for love whatsoever. Get a guy who has room for you only!!
2007-01-02 08:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's playing you. If he has a gf he shouldn't be talking in that way to you - how would you feel if the situations were reversed and he was telling another girl that? What happened to sisterhood?! He is so not worth it. Sounds like he's trying to have his cake and eat it too. Move well on
2007-01-02 15:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nikita21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you think he is going to treat you the same way as the other GF? I am sure he will but would you allow it. He is playing both of you!! I think you deserve a lot better than that. If he can do this to a girl he loves he will do the same to you when he gets bored of you. I would move on, you are bound to get yourself hurt and also his current GF. She will have to learn herself or you could nicely give her a call and explain the situation and maybe she will realize she deserves better as well.
2007-01-02 14:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by cherristee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should move on because he is not worth it, I think this because if he cared about you he would have dumped this other girl. personally i think you can do a lot better than if you do wait for him and he does go out with you how can you be certain he will not love another person if someone says they love you don't always believe it. It is not worth the heart ache.
2007-01-02 14:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by UGLYSWAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ms. Desperate: If he really doesn't 'love' his girlfriend, then telling you that he feels the same about you would mean he doesn't 'love' you either. He obviously doesn't care very much for his girlfriend, or he wouldn't be trying to get something kickstarted with you. So, if you're looking for a self-focused and thoughtless jerk to be your boyfriend...you may have found your guy. Maybe if you did something dramatic like throw yourself in interstate traffic or on a railroad track he'd 'love' you back. LOL
2007-01-02 14:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
trust me do not go there thats u bad idea so dont even think bout it at all if and when he does say that just say , say that 2 your gf thats what u are suppose to say to her not me or other people thats kinda the hole point being a relationships its not that u cheat on some one why u are going out with someone else or its not worth it going thought all the trouble just let it be and he will come around to u soon or later in life! just let it be right now and let him be with his gf he will come around or not trying to be mean or anything maybe his gf will soon eounght find out that he say that he " love's u " not her u will just have to soon or later find out and see what happends.
2007-01-02 15:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by gatoroak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na, its a game, trust me, I've heard that all before, i used to know this guy, done it to me and every one else apparently at my work place, female obviously, slept with the lot, he thought he was a right gods gift to women, only thing is he's partner worked at the same place to, higher up than the rest of us girls, she knew about some of them sleeping with him, but not all the stories, and yet she took him back, HOW WEIRD??? but its not the point, move on hunni, all they want is something different, normally in the bedroom, just so they feel special, he probably isn't getting what he wants out of his gf.
believe me, there's plenty more fish in the sea, and there is defiantly a Mr wright for everyone!!!!!
2007-01-02 15:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by sammyjane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do this to your heart. You are setting yourself up for a big time heart ache...if he is doing this to his current g/f then he could do it to you the next time someone else comes along. He is leading you on and having you on the side in case it goes bad with his current g/f. I would want no part in a game like that. He is a player and he will end up hurting you so bad!!! If he loved you like he says then he wouldn't be with his current g/f. Stay away from him and give your heart to someone that will treat you like the queen you deserve to be treated as.
2007-01-02 14:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately leave this jerk... he is so not worth it, you are better than that and you know it. He has a gf, put yourself in her shoes... if he did leave her for you, you'd never be able to trust him, you'd always be wondering if he's cheating on you. Once a cheater always a cheater... find someone who truely loves you back. Leave this jerk well alone. You know the right thing to do. Good luck Hun x
2007-01-02 14:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Minniex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be playing you, just try and tell what his motives are. Mostly I think you should just move on and find someone else. Don't waste time with guys like that. If he's doing that to his gf, what makes you think you're going to be any different?
2007-01-02 14:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋