I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BF 4 ABOUT 10MNTHS AND SOME FEMALE THAT I HAVE NOT TALK TO IN A VERY LONG TIME AND I DO NOT GET ALONG WITH BY THE WAY) MEETS MY BF. ON CHRISTMAS I DECIDED 2G2 CALI AND I GUESS HE WAS HANGING OUT WIT HIS FRIENDS THEY ARE IN A CAR SHOW SO I DONT TRIP THEY KNOW ME AND I KNOW THEM WELL THIS FEMALE WAS FEETING HIM LIES ABOUT ME! TRYING TO SAY I HAD BEEN AROUND THE BLOCK AND THAT IS NOT TRUE HE UNFORTINUTLY HE BELIEVED HER AND BROKE UP WITH ME ON X-MAS EVE WHEN I CAME BACK HE SAID HE WAS SORRY AND I TOOK HIM BACK BUT THINGS ARENT THE SAME AND HE BRINGS IT UP AND SAYS "IS IT TRUE " AND GIVEs ME A LOOK THAT I JUST WANT TO BET OUT OF HIM BUT I CARE ABOUT HIM SO MUCH THAT I DONT CARE IF HE THINKS AM A not telling the truth BUT THINGS ARE SO DIFFERENT WHAT DO I DO???
2007-01-02 06:41:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is just stupid. you can get better.
he doesnt even believe you.
so why bother?
2007-01-02 06:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by polka dotsy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should care that he doesn't think you are telling the truth.the foundation of a strong relationship is built on honesty and trust. Why would he believe her and decide to breakup with you with out knowing what you had to say about it that is very immature on his part. I can understand that he might be concerned if he hears rumors but the fact that it came from a girl who isn't your friend or his ,with whom you don't even get along with is bull ****. Sit down with him and be upfront about your past but it is the past. You have been going out for ten months by now he should have a good idea of what kind of person you are. And besides your past is your business . Honestly I am more concerned about why he decided to trust her 100% on the trash she was talking. I have been with my bf for 2yrs now and if some guy who didnt like him came up to me to talk **** about my bf's past ,I wouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions. Any way if you are honest and he still gives you heck about it reconsider why you would want to be with him.
2007-01-02 15:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okie dokey. u love him, yeah yeah. the problem here is that HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU! so that means he MAY NOT deserve your love.. have u ever thought of it that way?
it's not hard to love someone and want them even if they treat u like crap. the really hard thing to do is use ur Brain at the same time as ur Heart, and really think of where this relationship is leading you: do u want to marry and have kids w/ someone who believes other people and not you? who carries something against u in his heart?? that is horrible feeling, and u are experiencing it Right Now.
tell him straight out, that if he can't start over and learn to trust you, than u are not right for each other. cuz if u truly loved each other, u woudl do what is BEST for eachother, not think bad thoughts about u, or treat u Worse than before, or accuse u of things, etc. u deserve More for your love. ur love is Worth Something, remember that. don't give it to just anyone.. give it to someone who knows how to be Good to you.
2007-01-02 14:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never should have taken back your BF. He believed some skank over you. It is over. Find another guy.
As a side note, and as the father of two daughters, I recommend that you not be in a committed relationship until you are 25 years old. You should date as many guys as possible.
2007-01-02 14:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a mistake he took and is sorry for, then good. But with you taking him back and asking all these questions about your character, you must tell him to trust you. If he was mistaken then why is he asking these questions? He must have some conservative belief to have questions and you must tell him not to. Communicating this will better the relationship as well.
2007-01-02 15:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. The key to a relationship is communicatio, but if you really care about him tell him the truth. Don't worry about what others think about you.Do what you feel is right.
2007-01-02 14:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a complicated situation...I know that it would hurt me a lot if my boyfriend didn't believe me...u can't really blame him b/c if somebody told u somethin about him u would be mad at first too...but u guys need to just sit down...& u need to tell him that it's not true...& if he does't believe u then maybe yall should take a break...
2007-01-02 14:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you sit down and tell him why you dont like this girl
and then tell him the truth and maybe you should e asking him who should he belive his gf or this *****? and why is he hanging with her in the first place...if he really loves you he would belive you
2007-01-02 14:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by =X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find yourself another guy. He obviously has trust issues
2007-01-02 14:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Hinata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly loved u then he would not have gotten into somebody else's lies so easily..he should have had trust on u
2007-01-02 14:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋