I have a huge crush on a guy from school but we don't even know each other or have friends in common, how can I get to know him without being so obvious???. Whenever I'm around him, he's looking at me and stuff but we don't talk.
2007-01-02 06:39:33 · 15 answers · asked by nobodysfool 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My god i have the same problem as you lol, in fact this is why i just signed up!
I know a few of his mates, but not the close ones that always hang with him. My sources aren't near enough to him i guess. He's in the year above me, and apparently he's my type or whatever. I love the idea to ask for a pen and then write down my number on it lol... except i usually only see him as i'm passing by.
wish i could help - all my friends wanna help me. I don't understand how its so easy to just say 'Hi'... i mean are you serious?! This is my crush with whom i've nothing to do with!
2007-01-04 04:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Vxn* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this very situation. Fortunately, we had i class together and started talking and now we are close. When we go back to school Thursday, I'm hoping to pick up where we left off.
When your around him, just make small talk and maybe you to will become friends. Guys are just as shy as we are. he's not going to make the first move unless you start acting slutty but that would be giving him the wrong message. So don't do that. If nothing develops, then just move on to the next cutie you find interest in.
2007-01-02 14:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mz.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have friends in common you can use it as an opportunity try hanging around him when some of your mutual friends are around that way you'll be around him without appearing so obvious.
2007-01-02 14:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you don't want to be obvious but ,its a new year go for what u want girl:)
the next time u see him say something that lets him know that u want to get to know him better
if u don't someone will
HAPPY NEW YEAR! and GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-02 15:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by TILII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him to know? so you CAN hook up?or hide it? If he's totally hot and sweet then ask around about him. But just be sure to kbnow his name so u arent pointing fingers. Then maybe he'll talk or u will.
2007-01-02 14:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brian's Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call.... but what do you want? Being embarrassed for a short moment or thinking for the rest of your life that you really missed a chance.....?
2007-01-02 14:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by mr. corkscrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sense of humor, everything can be done, use any opportunity to do funny things like funny faces, or joke about anything and everything, sooner o later you and him will be laughing
2007-01-02 14:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph have no ideal but best of luck with your current situation and belated happy new year
2007-01-02 14:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he looks at you, you should smile and wink. say "hi, whats up?" He will come and talk to you. ask him to eat on your table.
2007-01-02 14:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.. just like anyone else... you have to talk to get to know someone.. Duhh
2007-01-02 14:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋