how do you tell if you're in a relationship because it's the real deal, or because it's habit?
2007-01-02 06:37:29 · 5 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Imagine yourself 25 years from now. If you see him there then it is real...... if not maybe it is just mr. right now!
2007-01-02 08:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by spikeddo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be because it's the real deal. You always want to go into a relationship thinking this is the right one. Unforunately, it doesn't always work out that way. But sitting here thinking about this question, which is a real good one, I'm thinking there are some things that happen in a relationship out of habit. I can't think of any one thing in particular, but there are certain things you carry over from past relationships, just out of habit.
2007-01-02 06:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess, you know by if it's thrilling you see him? do you still love spending time with him?ect...
you have to answer these questions for your self!
But i found myself in that same situation last year, i was with this guy for over two years, we got a long great, but that was it, it took me a long time to realize it, but it was out of habit that i was with him!!!
and i broke up with him over six months ago, and at first he didnt want to give up on us, he thouhgt it was "too much of a good thing". But we resently hung out and talked about "us" and we both realized we are better off friends and right now we are not the right people for each other, and we are better off being friends, but we decided one day we might get back together and if we do i think it will be the real thing!!!
Good Luck... my advice... tell him how you feel, if he cares about you he will understand!
2007-01-02 06:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get butteflies it's the real deal...if it's ho hum it's habit
2007-01-02 06:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I love her then it is, but if i just wanna ***** her? it clearly is habit!
2007-01-02 06:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Breakdancer 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋