Has he lost interest?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 weeks but i'm scared he's lost interest, he used to call and text all the time, like he'd just text kisses for no reason but recently it's been me that calls first and he's pretty much stopped textin unless i text first but when i'm with him he's so lovely and makes me think he does really like me. So why is he bein so weird wen we're apart? Also, today he was having lke a pretend mood and when i tempted him out of it, after a bit, i did the same an he was like well if ur gonna be in a mood then shall we just call it a day and i said no and he kissed me and laughed and was nice after but i duno if he was serious or not... it really upset me. I don't know what to do!

Answer 1

sweetie, he's playing games with you. I don't know why guys do it, but i think it's because he's trying to cover up his insecurities. Maybe he isn't sure that you like him as much she he likes you. Show him that you like him by kissing him sometimes. Remember, in a relationship, the man is always the head, but the woman is the neck that turns the head in the right direction. Show him you like him, and hopefully the games will stop.
If the games don't stop, then you can play games too. After you two spend a good time together (make sure your date or whtvr ends on positive, loving terms), don't call him. Don't answer his calls either. And don't worry about missing his calls. Yes, it'll be painful. It's always more painful for me to play games than for my boyfriend because I love him so much, but it was worth it! (I only did it once about 3 months into our relationship and it brought us closer). You can finally pick up the phone when you feel ready and he's called at least twice. Sound busy and happy....men love independant women because then they feel honored that the woman is making space in her life for him. Now, this is the hardest part. When he sends you a kiss or says something nice, say that you're not completely sure you feel the same way because of the way he's been acting. Say that you WANT (NOT NEED) to be treated like a princess and you're not sure if he's MAN ENOUGH to be your prince. Trust me, it'll make him squirm and ask you for another chance to be a man. think about it, give him the chance graciously, and he'll be chasing you and calling you all the time! once he's after you, then you can take your role as the "neck" of the relationship and lead it in the right direction!
good luck!

Answer 2

He is a coward and being really stale on the breaking up thing. He is trying to get you to do it.
Ignore him if you really want him and feel like playing tedious games because that is what he wants and is doing. Or, on the other hand, you could just break up with him, then go out with someone who wants to spend time with you and has a busy life and doesn't have time for dramas.
This guy sounds like a bore who has way too much free time.
Make yourself busy, busy, busy.....I mean so busy that you forget to call him. You will need this when and if he plucks up the courage to let you go. At least, you won't notice when he's not in your life anymore.
Good luck.
Don't bother analysing him. He isn't worth it.

Answer 3

In situations like this it is quite difficult to tell whether your partner is cheating or not since he avails himself whenever you need him. Man can be very moody if they are not getting what they want or if you try to control them, they will also act the fool and allow you to dominate.
There is nothing wrong with you initiating the calls or texting, particularly now whereby you are noticing some changes in his actions, you have to continue doing so. If you have discussed this before, then tell him that his actions are beginning to bore you and you can't take it anymore. Should he persists, then look elsewhere, as this relationship has actually gone sour.

Answer 4

Concentrate on you and what you want. He is here just to compliment and add wonderful things to your life. However, I lived through this as well with my current GF. Some people just tend to excite us in the beginning and than back off. The smart thing to do is mirror him. It does wonders. Google: Mirroring Love ones.

You still have a life, with or without him. That is the only way you can be truly happy with anyone. Simply ask yourself, "am I happy".

Answer 5

I would say yes, he's lost interest. You sound pretty young to be tied down to one guy anyway. Play the field. Check out different types of guys. Experiment, have fun. There will be plenty of time for a committed relationship later. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Majority of adult adult males will become bored after intercourse because is the biggest element you could furnish a guy . undesirable or good intercourse ought to nonetheless no longer lead them to stay . considering the fact that he hit you as much as convey a woman pal he'd in all probability sleep with you back yet do no longer communicate over with him anymore and while he hits you up be short . one element a guy can not stand is understanding that his intercourse game sucks and in case you're no longer hitting him up he's gonna initiate thinking . i realize it sucks yet you realize that the biggest clarification why you grew emotions is by technique of the intercourse . yet another guy will come alongside only before you think of do no longer waste it slow on a guy who only treats you like a bite of meat

Answer 7

I think he might have alot on his mind. I definately do NOT think he has lost interest. He could be under alot of pressure. If he is a teenager Parents could Be getting to him, school, friends. It is hard being a teen. Just take it slow and maybe he will come back to you.

Answer 8

things might have gone a bit fast for him and now he is looking to slow things down. don't take it personal but two can play that game. don't get into the routine of calling or texting if he doesn't. wait it out and trust me he will call

Answer 9

He's settled into your relationship.. and the challenge is gone, he doesn't have to be as "sweet and nice". If he's getting testy with you, maybe you should be "unavailable"... if he calls, don't answer the phone, if he's text msg, don't reply... see what happens before you jump to reply or talk to him so easily. If he's got something else going on, it will eventually come out.

Answer 10

that sounds just like my relationship after 5 months and soon after it was over. My guy just stopped calling/texting me. Which is such a gay way to break up. Be prepared. If you are curious ask him about it.