if you are 3 months pregnant and you tell the guy and he flips and tells you that if you would have kept your legs closed that none of this would happen what do you do? He totally flipped and he is saying he don't want it and that it might not be his and all this other BS. When he promised from the beginning that he would be there and take care of it he wants an abortion.... what to do?
2007-01-02 06:29:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lil' Miss Thing aka Crista 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what your heart tells you to. It's now about you and the baby forget about him less stress, healthier baby. Remember this (mother can be only one, a father can be whomever is man enough to step up and accept you and your child). Good-Luck & Happy New Year.
2007-01-02 06:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a piece of crap for one thing. It is his fault also. The only thing is that you are the one he is leaving the reponsibility for. For one thing you should not go back out with him and you should collect child support or something when you do have the child. I would beg you not to get an abortion. At the very least put the child up for adoption. I am not living your life nor am I girl but I still value life as much as possible. Things were work out if you just let them even if it seems like everything is going wrong.
2007-01-02 06:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder if you are dating my ex-boyfriend! LOL. He did the EXACT same thing to me. I found out I was pregnant, and he made me take 3 tests, then he told me it wasn't his, and if it was, I needed to get an abortion because he didn't want a kid... he really made me feel like ****. But I stayed with him... let me tell you something... don't feel like you HAVE to stay with him just because of the baby. I felt I had to, so I did... and I let him treat me like garbage... I have a beautiful daughter now who is almost 2... but me and him aren't together anymore... and I wish we would have broke it off a long time ago, before it got as bad as it did. If he treats you like this now, think of how it will be 2 years from now?? And how will he treat your child?? Probably the same way... and you wouldn't want your child to feel un-wanted. Go with your heart honey... thats all I can really say.
2007-01-02 06:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by spoiled_lovell_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abort...but leave him and seek help at one of the many organizations that assist pregnant women. If you have the child, there is some family out there who would be thrilled to be able to take care of your child as their own!
2007-01-02 06:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let anyone pressure you to decide, either way.
if the guy is an ****, ditch him, if love is real, things will work out, but even some guys in love are too immature to deal will responsibility.. but don't let anyone bully you into doing something you don't want to, be true to yourself.
and yes i am a bloke. i don't understand what he's angry about, sounds like he wants just sex with responsibility.
the above might not help so i say, Look after yourself,
2007-01-02 06:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this baby keep it, make sur he gets a paternity test and get child support. He was obviously wanting to play house with you but not wanting to be a dad. Do what you feel is best for you and the baby.
2007-01-02 06:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are dealing with someone so immature you will need to pull your head together and decide what's best for you, and your baby.
Don't let him intimidate you or make you feel lesser, he's equally responsible for getting you pregnant.
2007-01-02 06:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run now, doesn't sound like he's the responsible type. How's it your fault he didn't pull out?
2007-01-02 06:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋