im a freshman in highschool.i made the soccer team.and the girls talk bad.how do i get them to shutup?

Question

i made the varsity soccer team.and the older girls pick on me.
just cause coach said im a great athlete.how do i get them to stop?

Answer 1

Good job! But unfortunately, you are still a freshman. You will probably get picked on no matter what as sort of a hazing. You will probably get answers like, prove yourself etc to get them to stop, but chances are, you are going to have to deal and get out there and give it your best. Even if you made MVP it might not change, but chances are, if you show yourself to be the great asset to the team that you are, they might shut up a little bit! Go get em!

Answer 2

If you're a freshman playing on a varsity team the first thing I have to say is congratulations! I coached high school sports for many years, and know how rare it is for a player as young as you to make the team; you must surely be a great athete just like your coach says! :-)
I know the next part will seem crazy since as a teenager your image is important, but it's as honest an answer you will find: You really need to simply be yourself, and go about your business on the soccer field to the best of your ability. Girls at your age can be REAL catty (I know! I had three cheerleader daughters and one tremendously athletic daughter just like you apparently are), and their petty little tricks can truly hurt someone's feelings. The older girls on your team might be jealous of your skills, may feel you took one of their friend's place on the team, or have some other reason for giving you grief, but all you can do is hang in there and show them you belong. Once they realize that you can help them out on the pitch, they will come around eventually and accept you as one of them.
I'm not saying there might not be a few rough spots along the way, but just remember what your coach told you, and keep your head up high! Hope you make MVP! :-)

Answer 3

well im on the basketball team right now and people talk trash becuz we losin or they are not on the team. i don't listen to them becuz whatever they say is only trying to put you down. and besides if the coach said anybody want a spot on the soccer team i bet all the haters would try to be on the team. see anybody would do anything to get on that team. so prove everybody wrong. sometimes when they talk real bad sometimes u have to loud mouth them and show them off.

Answer 4

They are just jealous of you. Ignore them, when people pick on you they want to get a reaction from you when you dont give them one they get bored and find someone else to mess with. Dont lower yourself to their level. You are better than them by showing them you dont care what they have to say, they sound like little b*tches so why should what they think matter anyway?

Answer 5

That's awesome! You should show them why you made varsity. Don't let those girls get you down. You're obviously talented and I guess those girls are just jealous!

Answer 6

When they ya see on TV playing in the World Cup someday, they'll be bragging that they played on your team in highschool. Work your butt off in practice, play hard in games, score goals, but most importantly be nice to them!! Don't hate them in return.

Answer 7

To get them to stop, try scoring many points during the game.

Answer 8

Well is they talk bad about u then just play ur VERY best and then they wont talk bad about u b//c ur a realy good player. OR maybe they r jealous. If thhey talk bad about some1 else then just tell them tht u dont really appreciate tht meaness=]

Answer 9

Just ignore them and keep showing why you're a great athelete! Shove it in their faces--show why you're the best!

Answer 10

Simple, impress them with a bike kick. They are going to shut up right away,