Well I really like him and he has a girlfriend but we still talk everynite on the phone and last nite he told me how much he liked me but he wasnt ready to break up w/ his girlfriend yet. He cheated on her and we had a great time we almost did it! But today his girlfriend was telling everyone how they had sex!
2007-01-02 06:10:59 · 11 answers · asked by ABBz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, think about this. If he is cheating on his girlfriend now with you, what makes you think that he isn't going to cheat on you. I am not trying to sound like a heartless *****, it makes sense. That has happened to me before. I think that he should tell his girlfriend that he doesn't have the same feelings for her as he used to. How can he not be ready to break up with his girlfriend if he really likes you?
2007-01-02 06:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you think that he could somehow be faithful to you, in spite of the fact he's cheating on her with you....why can't you find someone that isn't already involved and save some poor girl that heartache?
Believe me, this dude is getting the better end of the deal, he's getting both you and his g/f. Maybe one day you'll see that you deserve someone willing to give you ALL his attention, not what's left over from his girlfriend.
2007-01-02 14:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always about a guy. Anyway I would advice you not to get involved. He has a girlfriend and I he is cheating on her now. If you get together with him he will only cheat on you too. You will only get hurt in the end and I don't think you want that for yourself.
2007-01-02 14:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bragging about being "the other woman"? How can you like a guy that has so little honor that he will break his word like that?
He is using both of you - he won't break up with his girlfriend till he gets caught, and he won't commit to you while he can get without giving (ie, why buy the loaf when you can get slices for free?).
You need to realize that you deserve a guy who will like you for yourself, who is willing to treat you (and himself) with respect. And the first step would be to start treating all relationships with the same respect you'd want for yours.
2007-01-02 14:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. if he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. allow your intuition to save you from the heartache. stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. slower is better! if he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. never live your life for a man before you find what makes you happy!!! if something bothers you, speak up. never let a man know everything...he will use it against you later. you should not be the one doing all the bending. you need time to heal between relationships. baggage is not cute. make him miss you sometimes...if he always knows where you are, he'll take you for granted...*
Alright just one of my fav. quotes....
"If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you"
I would be careful, it sounds like your settin yourself up to get hurt!
Remember: Guys like to lie and cheat!
2007-01-02 14:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he is using you and cheating on his girlfriend to top it off. He doesn't sould like a person that you can trust. How can you be sure that if he was your boyfriend, then he wouldn't cheat on you?
2007-01-02 14:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i've got a friend of mine that is in the same exact situation as you are and this guy keeps telling her that he is going to leave his gf but has never done it and she been waiting for him for almost 8 months now. well i think that you should talk to him and tell him that if he wants to stay with you he has to leave him gf or else forget you. you have to be strong if you want to know his feelings for you.
goodluck.
2007-01-02 14:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you the same thing happened to me but it was with a girl instead.
2007-01-02 14:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by plehaq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats crazy
so why do u want him
if he cheated on his gf
he will do it to u too lol
2007-01-04 10:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you're just a friends with benefits. LOSE HIM!
2007-01-02 14:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by hey there :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋