He said nothing last forever.?
Boyfriend told me the other day that nothing lasts forever including relationships and we too someday will part...he asked me if I see myself growing old with him, I said maybe. He mentioned jokingly that when I graduate from college in May that he will let the realtionship fizzle out...but he said he was just kidding. He then asked "do you think we will have a love child?"..... He also said that he probaly should not be telling me because I would think something i should not and think that he was trying to tell me something like he does not want to be with me...but that is how i felt after he said these things. what should I do or think now? does he not love me, we have been dating for almost a year this is he first relationship.
2007-01-02 06:07:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not sending you a mixed message - he's telling you that he plans on ending your relationship in the near future and he thinks that "warning" you about it now will somehow let him off the emotional hook. If he's been dating you a year and doesn't love you - RUN - he has some weird emotional wall that he's not letting you into. I wouldn't stay with this guy - if he mentions leaving now - when everything is fun and happy...what will happen when it's not and you really need his support? I also wounldn't be sleeping with anyone who so casually talked about a "lovechild" - you may end up a babies mama with no guy in sight!
2007-01-02 06:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sound rather insecure to me and it seems he's playing head games with you to see how you feel. He said he would let the relationship fizzle after you graduate probably because he thinks that you will move on. He's probably afraid that what you guys have won't last and he's just testing your outlook on your future.
2007-01-02 14:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's saying he's going to let the relationship fizzle in may after you graduate what are you hanging around for? you should let it "fizzle" now and find a man that wants to spend the rest of his life with you!
2007-01-02 14:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key to a successful long-term relationship is good communication. This guy of yours is not communicating (he's just playing with words). End it now and find someone you can understand and trust!
2007-01-02 14:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a future between the two of you. I would say getting ready for the relationship to end or beat him to the punch and end it. Then move on. It's not the end of the world.
2007-01-02 14:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha yea thats a big "hint hint" hes givin you there. Start lookin for someone else as of right now cuz hes obviously trying to give you a clue. he doesnt know how to come out and break up with you so you should drop it before he drops you.
2007-01-02 14:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kr@zie♥Be@utiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lovingclementine, also think you deserve better, sounds like he don't know the meaning of love, if love is what your looking for move on Hun, good guys are out there.
2007-01-03 12:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by snoweyowl44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to tell you that he is unsure if he wants to continue this relationship. Since this is his first relationship, he probably wants to see what else is out there. Don't be too surprised when he finally calls it quits.
2007-01-02 14:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd back off for a little bit. Be a little less available. Have plans sometimes when he wants to go out. Let him see what he could lose.
2007-01-02 14:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not mature enough for a relationship.
Before you graduate dump him before he can dump you.
(that was real mature wasn't it).
I'm playing, but really he's not ready for a relationship.
Just focus on graduating and your new career.
2007-01-02 14:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋