We've been together for 2 years. One year ago, he told me I had pressured him into telling me he loved me, so he took it back. We changed some of the ways we do things and communicate, and things are going great. He will write I love you and acts like he loves me, but he will not say it. When I ask him how he feels, he says he won't be pressured again, and when the time is right, he will say it again. IT"S BEEN 2 YEARS with no true I LOVE YOU!! He says he's not waiting around for something better so what is he doing. This is the longest relationship for both of us, so is he just scared? What should I do? Leave or stay?
2007-01-02 05:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by JB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've been together for two years and things are going great, stay and be content. Lots of blokes find it difficult to express their feelings.
2007-01-02 06:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your significant other could be scared, he could be having problems within his family that he is trying to deal with and does not want to get you involved. Although it seems if he loved you truly he would want to talk to you about what is going instead of wanting to hide things from you. Maybe he is not too sure what to think, because he does not want to give you the wrong impression. It is time that you put your foot down and had a talk with you man to let him know how you feel and that you care about him and would like to know what is going on. If he is not willing to communicate with you and discuss what is going on in the relationship then maybe it is time you and him split only if you and have not worked out your differences and can't come up with any other solutions. You know what you want you just have to figure out how to get it.
2007-01-02 14:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if he really did like you he will tell you and not write it down that's what you call a jerk. I mean come on its been 2 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!! And he is totally not scared cuz if he was he wouldn't be writing down he loves you. And whats up with him acting that he likes you so.................he ....doesn't really like you. Sorry to give it to you harsh. I think you should move on and find another guy that treats you better. I seriously think you should leave.
2007-01-02 14:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dude has emotional commitment issues. He's not going to say it. Why should he, as you are still there, and back down every time you two discuss it? Women need emotional commitment and this guy isn't capable of providing that for you. Leave, it's him, not you.
2007-01-02 14:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by sundeevah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are both being stubborn and childish. He's merely not saying it, because he knows that's what you want to hear. This is a no-win situation...move on!
2007-01-02 14:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing mind games with you. Get out. Find someone better who can give you what you want.
2007-01-02 14:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lewis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just leave and get it over with
2007-01-02 14:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me get out
2007-01-02 14:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋