I had this really great guy but i broke up with him i dont know why he was perfect is it because i have commitment issues?
2007-01-02 05:58:31 · 16 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was also clingy
2007-01-02 06:02:34 · update #1
we dated fot about a month
2007-01-02 06:09:04 · update #2
I know how you feel!
I liked this guy, he was great everything... hott, nice, funny, the works....
but....
he was soo attached to me and like talked about the future....
i bailed....
and i dont think i have commitment issues, and i dont think you do either,
dont let people call you a whore or a slut, if your not ready to settle down, then your not. When you find a guy that lets you be you and doesnt try to tame you and will wait for you, then thats the guy for you! Don't worry you didn't screw up! you dont need to know exactly what your looking for, you just need to know he's not it!
Now go have a good time! =)
2007-01-02 06:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, no. I've always been after serious, committed relationships and i find casual dating to be annoying if it's not done with the intention of going further. But yes there are lots of women with commitment issues. Some people just feel a serious relationship is synonymous with a chain attached to their ankle. If you're dealing with someone who won't commit, and that's what you want, leave them alone. It is too much trouble to go through just on the hope that maybe they'll fall madly in love and actually WANT to commit.
2016-03-29 04:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may feel on some level you are not deserving. I have the same issue, and the best thing I have done is to have an open conversation about my fears that'd cause me to bail. It's like shining a light into the darkness. Then, you are not suffering and can give a good thing a chance.
2007-01-02 06:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down you do know why. Take out a sheet of paper and divide it in half. On one half write down all the reasons why you like him, and on the other half write the reasons why you dont. If one side outweighs the other, reconsider.
2007-01-02 06:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by sktchgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, have you done it before? How long did the two of you date? Only you know if you have issues
2007-01-02 06:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. If you broke up with him and have no idea why, you really need to get some therapy or something.
2007-01-02 06:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, u know dang well i have the same prob w/ my boys *cough* 92 *cough* just be confident and be yourself u did the right thing by breaking up w/ him and don't listen to some of these people
2007-01-02 07:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by annastasia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a complex question that i would need More information to answer.
2007-01-02 06:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by chris a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes perfect but probably not perfect for u.
2007-01-02 06:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by hey there :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You really screwed up.
2007-01-02 05:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Abu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋