should i be upset or is he just doing it cause he loves me and wants me to obey?

Question

i sometimes forget tp shut the garage door when i park the car inside. My husband has alwayts been upset with me when i do this but once i say i'm sorry we make up and everything, and he just says dont do it again. i forgot again but this time he was really upset and tool me over his knee and spanked me. i was really upset with him for doing this but at the same time i really liked it.

Answer 1

Well, if you liked it, what's the problem? Get him to spank you some more as part of your sex play, and that way you can come to associate it entirely with pleasure.

Answer 2

I think a woman thinking she needs to OBEY her husband is a thing of the past!! Also put a post it up on the garage door if its a day you want to be spanked, don't close it, if its a day you don't, well you have the reminder!

Answer 3

I don't know how you could like that kind of treatment but everyone to their own taste but I would find it humiliating. what you should do it put a post-it note on your steering wheel or key chain to remind you to close the garage doors so he won't have an excuse to spank you again

Answer 4

You surrender to his authority, and that is ok, you guys are going to make it well with your submissive behaviors, and allowing him discilipine you as he sees fit.
We wives makes mistake time to time, and just sometimes we need to keep in focus.
and having mixed feelings about the whole thing, I can relate with too.
Love honour, and obey your husband, and you will bring him Glory to God, and Glory to yourself. Alot of men, envy your husband for a surrendering heart of yours to obey, and take accountablity when you make mistakes, and being over his knee, and being spank can be erotic as well. Check out Leah Kelly pages for Christian Disclipine Relationships, and she has awesome stories to read, that you might like.