if u have a cancer?

Question

just guess ok...
what do you do
i mean do you stay in bed crying or what ??
plz i need you to answer this question???

Answer 1

Samira, do you have cancer? If so, I am sorry and hope that you get a full recovery. I have had many scares in my life --- I've had 5 lumps removed from my breasts plus a couple of small polyps in colon. My maternal grandmother died of lung and breast cancer. My maternal grandfather died from prostate cancer which metastisized. My mom has had breast and colon cancer. And, there is cancer on my dad's side as well. They say my sisters and I are destined at some point to have it. Each time I have a scare, I go thru the different stages of grief and anger, etc... I do alot of praying, but then I do that all the time, good or bad, now. I would hope, that if I were to be faced with a malignancy myself, that I would probably do alot of crying, maybe stay in bed a day or so, and then find out what I had to do to get better. Keep your head up, keep your spirits up. Find out what needs to be done to get better or, in the worse case scenario, to make your final days on this earth as comfortable as possible. I am here if you need a shoulder to lean on.

Answer 2

I haven't had mine yet, but I'm due. Many people get cancer sooner or later. It's hardest I guess when the doctor first tells you. Then you probably wonder "why me?". You may hope you don't really have it. Finally, as some time passes, you start reading more about your cancer and talking to people that have the same cancer as you. Then you start to realize that most cancer is very treatable and that there are many new treatments coming along all the time to ask your doctor about. The research shows that maintaining a positive mental attitude and conviction that you'll overcome it may sometimes be the difference between people that get well and those that don't. Miracles seem to happen sometimes!

Answer 3

If I had cancer i for sure would not spend my time crying in bed i would do anything possible to get rid of it. If it was a deadly cancer that set my date to die, i would live everyday to the fullest like as if it was my last day.
take an exotic trip
jump out an airplane
go on the most crazziest roaler coaster
go the grand canyon
go snorkling
go see vegas
go see the white house
ask if i can meet some superstars
and etc....

hope this answers ur questions :o)

Answer 4

I have Hodgkin's Disease (a cancer of the lymphatic system) I was diagnosed in September 2005 at age 24. I just found out that I'm relapsed and will be going through more chemotherapy and a second stem cell/bone marrow transplant.

I've faced my cancer head on from the beginning. Staying positive about it, makes treatment go much easier and it really helps people get through the hard times. There's no point in crying and going through the "why me's". I want to live my life while I still have it to live.

Answer 5

I don't doubt that some people do stay in bed and cry, but this is not going to be helpful to them. Proactive measures must be taken right away. Look into all treatment methods, including alternative ones, increase the body's strength through diet and exercise, put personal affairs in order in case of a worst case scenario, join a support group...there are a number of things that can be done to improve one's chances of survival or ability to cope with the inevitable.

Answer 6

I felt sorry for myself for about a week while I was in the hospital having the tumor removed, then once I started treatment, my attitude changed. I FOUGHT it. And I won, by the way. I have been in remission for 7 years. Now my sister has been diagnosed with cancer. And she told me she hopes she can remain as positive as I was. See, you lead by example. What good is staying in bed crying going to do? Do you think you are unique or special? Do you know how many millions of people have cancer and how many millions get it treated and go into remission for YEARS? Get a hold of yourself (or whomever it is that you know with cancer) and SNAP OUT OF IT. Fight!

Answer 7

I have a LOT OF EXPERIENCE WITH THIS MY BROTHER HAD CANCER AND SO DID MY MOM
My brother had leukemia and had chemo for almost 2 years and unfortunately past on when he was almost 4 years old

My mom had two tumors and had them removed and now is said to have a high chance of having breast cancer

My suggestion is see a doctor for treatment
most likely you will be having a treatment that will cause you to loose your hair so get a good wig if you feel uncomfortable and take advantage of your hair while you still have it if that makes any sense

Stay strong and don't stay in bed crying

Think of Lance Armstrong and all those other people that have survived

Answer 8

Do what you need to do to cope. Rely on friends,family and professionals for mental support. Follow the advice of health professionals for guidance in fighting the cancer. There are many new ways to prevent cancer from spreading. Diet and exercise are a part of it, as well as prescriptions and treatments. A positive outlook and prayer are also helpful ways to cope.

Answer 9

I am a survivor of kidney cancer.Three yrs. ago they removed 1/3 of my right kidney.I was fortunate not to need chemo I assume you have already seen a Dr. or you wouldn't know that you have it.I went through all the stages of crying,to refusing to talk to anyone.I even asked if I should plan my funeral.Thankfully my Dr. listened to my fears and reassured me.I know exactly what you're going through and I wish you the best.Find someone trustworthy to talk to.There are many people who truly care.For me,the Lord was my listener.Good luck to you,I pray it will all turn out well.

Answer 10

I can tell you what I do.
I get up every day grateful for that day. I try to be positive. I make an effort to focus on the day ahead, how I'm going to make a difference that day (in any small way) and not the disease.
I wake up determined not to let a disease dictate how I live my life, or how happy or sad I'm gonna be living it.
Maybe I'll get better, and maybe I won't, but meanwhile - It's not gonna be my boss :-)